I have a low opinion of hardcore BD/SM types as I think there is no way to do this in a healthy way. I have been to many Tumblr porn sites that were oriented this way, and it’s sick as Hell. These men are sexual sadists. That means they get a hard-on by hurting women. These are men who love to hurt women, live to hurt women. There is no way you can be like that and be a good person much less a good man.
I have no respect for a woman who likes to be beaten up or treated like shit. Sorry. Anybody like that is simply not healthy.
If those porn sites are anything like what the scene is really like then the whole thing is fucked up and sick. The impression I got from those sites and the comments is that BD/SM looks exactly like how many women have described the horrors of an abusive relationship where the man is horribly abusive to the woman. It looks 100% like those Hellish relationships except this time the woman is enjoying it. So in BD/SM a woman is enjoying being in what amounts to an abusive relationship.
Porn is misogynistic enough, but BD/SM porn seems to be inherently misogynistic at its very nature, especially male doms and female subs. Most male doms strike me as the sort of psychos who normally reside in prisons. Quite a few look sociopathic. Most female subs have no self-esteem, hate themselves, think they are worthless and want to suffer because they think they are garbage. This is “a healthy sexual variation” that the Cultural Left expects me to approve of? Let me off the bus then.
And anyone who expects me to approve of men who burn others’ with cigarettes, threaten them knives, or choke them like a serial killer can forget it. Ain’t getting my stamp of approval. This is “a healthy sexual variation?” Nope.
Incidentally, it has long been normative opinion in psychology that hardcore sexual sadism and sexual masochism are unhealthy per se. You can’t be a healthy person if you are deep into this sort of thing.
I am supposed to approve of idiotic gay men who shove fists up other men’s asses and even more insane gay men who let other men shove half a forearm up their ass? Count me out. That has to be one of the stupidest things a human can do to his body. Fully 37% of gay men practiced fisting last year. All I have to say is if those figures are correct, there is something deeply disturbed about gay men. This is “a healthy sexual variation?”No.
How about the shitheaters? That’s another kink. And it’s a lot more common than you think. This is “a healthy sexual variation?” I am expected to approve of this madness?
