Tulio writes:
Also, I think every woman who doesn’t like this type of male behavior should call their girlfriends out on dating bad boys over nice guys. There’s hardly a woman alive(in the West anyway) that hasn’t passed up a perfectly decent guy because he didn’t have an edge to him. Often these are the type of guys who would’ve probably married young and been pillars of their community in a different era.
This is of course an old cliche. I usually do not worry myself about it too much, except that I find it utterly disgusting that women stay with vile men who repeatedly steal from them and abuse them in all sorts of ways.
But that’s because I can usually get a woman. On the other hand, I may even benefit from such a setup, as most girlfriends usually say that I am a bad boy. I don’t know why they say it, and I don’t know what I am doing that makes me a bad boy, but if it works, don’t fix it.
We can actually test this theory out right here on this blog. Just recently it hit me that the very worst men who have come to this blog appear to be having tremendous success with women. Most of the men who come here and talk about doing well with women aren’t very nice people. There is sort of an ugly, mean aggression about them. Shi is an exception.
Then it finally hit me. Many of the men on here who were most successful with women ended up getting banned by me. Generally these guys come here and get aggressive right away, and try to start a fight with me. They come in swinging, at me. Sometimes I let them stick around for a while before I permaban them.
Some are very sneaky about how they insulted me, and though I try very hard to not be paranoid, going back over even their comments that I let through as nonassualtive, lo and behold there were nasty little insults buried in there, often hidden very well.
Most of these men were smart.
There is one guy who was banned very quickly after he showed up because he started fighting me immediately. Among other things, he kept accusing me of being gay, which is a pretty macho insult. Then he got banned, and even after he got banned, he regularly posted comments which I read in the spam bin and then deleted. I let maybe 5% through. Since 95% of his comments get deleted, I have no idea what he was trying to accomplish except that maybe he knows I read comments that I don’t post, so he still gets to insult me even if his stuff never shows up online. This fellow could well be 70, and I recently learned that apparently he still cleans up with women, including some that might be 40-50 years older than he is.
Another fellow started a fight with me immediately, and then I completely jumped down his throat like a drill sergeant and told him if he didn’t knock it off, he was going to get banned. He backed down very fast and apologized. He was good the rest of the time, but he sure came in swinging. This guy has had sex with more women that just about any man I have ever met.
Another fellow generally posted non-insulting comments, and he made it known that he was my good friend. But now and again, he would viciously attack me.
This would take me aback. “We are best friends, and you rip me to shreds?” I guess so. I learned that many of these men think that is this is how male friendships are supposed to go. They tell me that they fight and argue with their male friends all the time, and they think this is 100% normal behavior. To me it seems awful.
This man did extremely well with women, especially for an older guy in his 50’s. Finally he ambushed me out of the blue one too many times and I gave him the HAND. He sent me an email which seemed to be coming from a place of hurt feelings on his part and deep betrayal on my part.
I never understood. You’re my friend. You know what that means? It means you don’t insult me. If you insult me, you’re not my friend. Friends don’t do that. That’s what your enemies do.
Then I thought back and realized that remember two more men who and made it clear that they did well with women. They were both in their 40’s, and both were highly aggressive men with a belligerent, somewhat menacing and frightening posting style. One man regularly carried a gun on him, and thought noting of it. They tended to speak in brusque, blunt, clipped short sentences. There was a real sense of threat coming out of their postings. Neither of them seemed like very nice guys. They seemed too scary for that, and a bit cold. Even though neither of them ever attacked me, they rather came across as aggressive men who seemed like real motherfuckers most of the time. Scary men.
When you think about it, that’s really depressing. These are the worst men who ever came to my blog. They picked fights with me right away. They all had an aggressive posting style that oozed hostility, threat and violence. The best of them came across as a bit scary, cold and mean, and the worst were simply out and out complete pricks.
So of all the men who came to my blog, females are deliberately selecting the very worst, ugliest, most aggressive and unpleasant men and joining their harems. You know that younger women do this. What shocked me was that asshole worship continues among women into a man’s 40’s, 50’s and maybe even up towards age 70.
I also noticed a lot of the guys on here who said they weren’t getting any were some of the nicest guys I ever had on my site.
So women have been monopolizing the worst men who came to my site and apparently mass-rejecting the best guys on here.
When you think about it, that’s damn depressing. And I would say that this experiment validates the theory.
