This is a post from a while back, but as long as we are on the subject of Game, this piece fits right into the conversation.
I am 59 years old and I still date attractive women age 18–28, even models. I do not have one nickel. But the vast majority of men my age in my shoes could not do this. In a sense I am doing the impossible. Or the near-impossible. It’s that hard. Like climbing Mt. Denali maybe. It can be done, but it is so difficult most guys will just give up and not bother.
Money: This is actually not necessary, but it sure helps. You can do it without a nickel as I do, but it is extraordinarily hard, like climbing a mountain. I think most men my age could not do it. Even if they could, most would not bother, as you have to wade through an avalanche of hundreds of often-angry flat-out rejections to get anything even slightly positive. Older man – young woman is a very discouraging game.
Power: This helps but is not necessary. Women are powerfuckers. Period. Get power, get women.
Status: This helps but is not necessary. I ran a Facebook group that was full of single women for a while. The women in the group were always coming after me, apparently because I was the owner of the group. Top dog. Boss man. Guy in charge. If I was not in that position, hardly any of those women would have come after me.
Fame: This helps a lot. I have gained a tiny bit of Net fame as a writer, and even that was good enough. There are actually blog groupies, and I understand that some big male bloggers actually have blogger groupies after them. There will be groupies in any line of work or play who will go after the top men in that line.
Looks: Lacking any of those, the older man should be very good-looking for his age group. Say top 20% in his age range. As a young man, he should have been handsome or better yet very handsome, possibly even with male model good looks. I know a few former male models who still date young women, even teenage girls 18–19 years old, far into their 50’s. Sure they’ve been beaten with the age stick, but they still look great compared to other men their age. You’re not really competing with 20 year old guys as far as young women are concerned. If she’s interested in you, she’s comparing you to the other men your age and noticing that you are hot as Hell for your age bracket. And that right there is a turn-on.
Game: Game is simply the style, skills, appearance, vibes, behavior, charisma, charm, manipulation, etc. that men use to get women.
Even married men may well have good Game. This good Game may have been what attracted his wife to him. Even monogamous married men could still have fantastic Game if they are the sort of very hot married men who attract women everywhere they go. A man with great Game need not be a player, though many are. A man with great Game simply has an excellent ability to attract women. If a monogamous married man is still attracting women everywhere he goes, he still has great Game, even though he is not acting on it because he already has a wife. The idea is that if the wife were not there, he could be meeting quite a few women with skills like that.
This Game is really the end-all of the whole art of seduction. I know men in their 50’s who still get hot young women, and I asked them how they did it. Over and over I heard words like Game, x-factor, magic, telepathy, psi skills, spell-casting, mindreading, or hypnosis. I was shocked at the number of men who told me that they used almost psi-like skills to get women. I do not know whether there is anything to any of these things. Perhaps they all work on some known psychological mechanism. But at any rate, these men are working very hard at psychological manipulation of female minds in any way they can.
These men were expert seducers. They had the best Game I have ever seen. Their Game was usually better than most young men’s Game because they have been at it for longer. They pretty much had a PhD in Game.
A number of these men told me that over and over women told them that they were irresistible. Women felt actually powerless in their presence as if they were under some seduction spell. And this is part of the essence of good Game.
Barring all of the first four, an older man 40–60 with Looks + Game should be able to get women of any age, though young women will be difficult. They will be easier at the lower end of the range and they will get progressively more difficult towards the upper end of the range.
And really with Looks + Game, any male of any age can get females. It’s the deadly duo. Females can’t resist it.
