I walk into a room full of men and women and there are no men in that room, ever. There’s just all the women, and me. That’s because I don’t compete with other men. I guess I think I’m better in a way. I mean not an arrogant feeling, more like I look around them and think, “Competition? What competition? You call that competition? I don’t think so.” Mostly I just don’t worry about them. And any guy who seems like he really has it going on? Well, he’s just a fellow stud, just like me. But he’s not better. I don’t often think other men are better than I am.
I never got into competing for females like most guys do because I despise competitive men, although most men are quite competitive. I always figured that I would not have to fight the other guys for the females. That feeling is rooted in insecurity. That man is thinking, “Wow, I am not as good as these other guys. These other guys are superior to me, and they are going to steal the chicks.” This leads to men AMOGing and fighting each other, etc. I am not into rivalry. I dropped out of the bullshit game ages ago and dropped out of society altogether. I am not a part of that bullshit.
I don’t feel like I will have to fight the other guys for the females because I just assume that the females, including the hot ones, will just go for me automatically anyway no matter how many other guys are around. The female interest in me is a given. I mean that’s not even up for grabs. Why would they pick all those other guys instead of me? How stupid. Women aren’t that dumb. Obviously they will go for me because it’s a proven fact that I am hot as Hell. Not only that, but I am King of the World. Why would women go for these other guys when the King of the World is in the room? See?
A lot of people hate someone who thinks like that, but at least I’m not competitive. And I generally do not come across as arrogant either.
I talk to another guy, and I do not have to AMOG him like all the other guys do. Anyway isn’t the AMOGing that all men do a bit arrogant? I am not thinking, “I am so much better than this idiot.” I am just thinking, “I am not worried about this guy as competition.”
If he’s Joe Cool then he’s just like me, and so what? And if he’s not who cares?
I am not thinking about where that guy stands in relation to the women in the room. I don’t care where he stands. That’s not an important question for me. Even if I see a guy with a bunch of women around him, I don’t get jealous of him. I just laugh and say, “Ha ha! Another guy just like me who gets all the chicks! Maybe I should go make friends with him. We are two of a kind.”
This mindset works very well for Inner Game, but it might be hard for a lot of men to work themselves into this way of thinking.
