Rahul wrote:
Great post Robert, I agree with every thing you’ve said except point 4 where you mention “Every sex act must receive approval before it is done”. Its ambiguous. I don’t get it. Approval in the sense? from whom? Does it indicate any sense of entitlement? It might be read as misogynistic and merely reducing women as throw-away objects.
Well if you have ever had sex with a woman, there are all sorts of things you can do with a woman sexually all the way from holding hands and kissing all the way to stuff straight out of a gonzo porn movie.
Generally what happens is that the male simply initiates various sexual behaviors and the female responds in one way or another. If she likes it, then she makes this clear somehow. If she doesn’t, she will generally say, “No” or “Stop” or things like that.
The new rape laws for California university campuses put in by female lunatics say that men must gain explicit permission for every sex at that they undertake with a women. Want to kiss her? Ask her first. “Can I kiss you?” If she says yes, you may proceed. And so on and so forth escalating along, at each point of escalation, you have to ask permission once again in which case she either says yes or no and if yes, then you proceed.
Yes this is absolutely insane. I assure you that no society of man anywhere on Earth would be so crazy as to make such a stupid law. Only women would make rules and laws like this because apparently this is what women want sex to be like, incredibly enough! Honestly I think even most women don’t want to have sex like this so once again we have a case of women thinking the want to do something that they really do not even want to do. In other words, women don’t even know what they want.
According to the rules, norms and values of men, men do not feel that you need to ask permission for every escalation of the sexual process with a woman. Men think you just do it, and then you see if she likes it or not. If she doesn’t explicitly say no or stop, you just keep going, damn the torpedoes.
I do not think men should take what they want from women. But they do it all the time anyway, especially with girlfriends and wives. That is lamentable, but it is sort of human nature. However, I disagree that we need to get women’s explicit verbal permission for every little sexual escalation we make, and if we don’t, we are committing rape.
