Answered on Quora:
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Here it is.
Gay men don’t look at women’s tits. Like, never ever ever ever. When I say that, I mean they don’t look at them like we straight men do!
You know how women complain that when straight men talk to them they look at their tits instead of their eyes? The joke is that women say, “Hey, my eyes are up here,” pointing to their eyes, as in, my eyes are up on my head, not down among my tits. If a man is staring at your tits while you are talking to him, that’s a dead on clue you are talking to a straight man or at least a very strong bisexual because no gay man ever does that.
I know a woman whose breasts fell out of her blouse when she was with a man she was sort of dating. The guy acted like nothing had happened, as if her breasts were not even there. That is when she concluded, correctly in my opinion, that he was gay.
Let’s turn this question around. Do straight men ever stare at men’s cocks? Do we ever look at other men in a sexual way at all, I mean they way we look at women (we look at women like they are t-bone steaks, or at least I do)? Well, of course not. No straight man ever looks at another man that way.
I work as a counselor. In my practice, I have had several gay men. I often do a sexual orientation workup if it is called for. I ask my gay clients:
Do you ever talk about women the way straight men do?
Do you ever look at women, like check them out like straight men do?
Do you ever fantasize about women?
Do you ever masturbate and think about women?
So far, 100% of my gay clients have answered no to all of those questions.
These responses held all the way to 25–75 gay (75 being maximal attraction, 25 being a fraction of that).*
Gay men are not attracted to women at all, hence, they don’t stare at women’s tits they way we straight pigs do.
*100-0: Maximum heterosexual, minimum homosexual
90-10: Maximum heterosexual, incidental homosexual
80-20: Maximum heterosexual, significant homosexual
70-30: Maximum heterosexual, strong homosexual
60-40: Maximum heterosexual, very strong strong homosexual
50-50: Maximum heterosexual, maximal homosexual
40-60: Maximum homosexual, very strong heterosexual
30-70: Maximum homosexual, strong heterosexual
25-75: Maximum homosexual, significant heterosexual
20-80: Maximum homosexual, significant heterosexual
10-90: Maximum homosexual, incidental heterosexual
0-100: Maximum homosexual, minimal heterosexual
