Lately, I've been watching the American show ' The Bachelor' personally I think the show is weird and the girls who go there need a smack on the head! Seriously, 15 of you date the same guy and then you weep like he's your relative when you are asked to leave? What did you expect? Did the others come there to watch you win? (Sell groundnut)
Anyhoo, my point is that 'Sean Lowe' the very sexy bachelor this season described himself as a born again virgin. This is all over social media. I fear a young girl trying to decide what to do with the 'cookie' would read such junk and think "I can do whatever I like and then become a born again virgin" it's not that simple in reality. There is a difference between a new Ferrari and a refurbished Ferrari even though they both look shiny! Depending on who you are, what kind of life you lead etc, sex is a decision to be carefully made... it's not a sporting activity! My advice anyway will be to hold off on the sex drama!
Celibacy is a laudable venture! I am a believer in it and I feel like it should be encouraged among unmarried people. But to say you are revirginised that doesn't quite explain your state... once you 'do the do' you never go back; we have heard of several methods women use to restore the form of their 'cookie' but that does not make them virgins does it?
I am aware of the scripture 'old things have passed away behold all things have become new' but I feel like it's a misconception to refer to yourself as a virgin after you have had sex because you have made a new decision to abstain... you are simply celibate.
That's what I think; what do you think? Please leave your thoughts down in the comment box!
Blessings and Love!
Misslara
