This is from a documnetary show by Ondi Timoner that reviews recent documentaries. This documentary is called Spanish Lake and it is about White flight in St. Louis. It’s a fascinating movie but we don’t get to see much but a few clips here in this show.
I was reading down the comments and some of the more racist commenters were insisting that the director and producer of the film, Philip Andrew Morton and Matt Smith, were gay and that the female host, Timoner, was lesbian. I found this fascinating because I am fascinated by sexual orientation. In particular, I am fascinated by how gays act and how their behavior differs from straights. And let me be completely honest here. The PC people are all crazy and they’re all lying.
Most gay men do behave in a rather distinctive manner. It’s not always completely obvious that they are gay, but it’s usually clear after you have been around them for a while.
I’ve been fooled by maybe one gay man in my whole life, and even he didn’t act masculine at all. I just didn’t think he was gay, that’s all.
This was a man who was married to my mother’s friend. He was said to be chronically impotent for many years. I asked my Mom why he was impotent. Was he gay or what?
She said with a bit of disgust, “No, he’s not gay,” she sighed. “He’s just Catholic!”
I always thought that was pretty funny. I met this man once and the one thing that I noted about him was that he was very passive. He fathered a few children. Near the end of his life, his wife finally fessed up to my Mom and told her that her husband had been arrested more than once for engaging in gay sex in public at highway rest stops. Then we learned the reason for his impotence – he was gay.
One thing I have never done is peg a man as gay who was completely straight. I am very careful about who I call gay. It’s one of the worst things you can call any straight man and many will hit you or even kill you over that accusation, and I don’t blame them.
I never accuse anyone of that until I have figured it out very well and have excellent evidence, and I never accuse anyone of that to their face. Nor do I never ask any man if he is gay or not, because that’s one of the shittiest questions you can ever ask anyone. Anyway, it’s none of my damn business. Asking a man if he’s gay or not is de facto homophobic right there. It’s like asking someone for a videotape of his sex sessions with whoever he fucks.
I think who you fuck is a profoundly personal matter, and it is unspeakably rude to ask anyone any questions about their sex life at all. That includes “Are you a virgin? When was the last time you got laid? Have you ever had a girlfriend? Are you bisexual?” There is never any reason to ask any man a question like that.
Anyway, I am always fascinated when people claim that they can identify someone as gay simply based on the way that they talk or act.
First of all, the woman, Ondi Timoner. I don’t think she acts dykey at all. When she first came on, I thought she was hot as Hell, and honestly she reminded me of an ex-girlfriend. So no way is she lesbian because my exes aren’t dykes. In the clip, she alludes to a 10 year old son. Most lesbians don’t have sons.
I did some Googling on her, and I found nothing about her being a lesbian, and she’s a pretty famous person.
Look at these images of her. Look at how feminine she looks. Her face, the way she holds her body, her eyes, her smile, everything. She’s a little tough-looking, but no way on Earth is she a lesbian.
A PC lie is that lesbians act just like all the rest of us. Bull. Most of them are pretty damn mannish. And one thing they are almost never is feminine. They just aren’t. The “feminine lesbian” is a big fat PC lie.
Now onto the men. I had already watched 5-10 minutes of the video before I read that commenter insisting that these two filmmakers were gay. I had assumed nothing about them, which means I thought they were straight.
Philip Andrew Morton is the blond-haired, slight director on the right. He doesn’t act very gay at all, although he is a bit soft-spoken. But his mannerisms (the way he moves, the way he holds his face, the way he walks, the way he poses) are all actually rather masculine. Gay men just don’t act like this. Truly masculine gay men are like 4 leaf clovers. I Googled Philip Andrew Morton and found nothing suggesting that he was gay. Nor did I find anything suggesting a wife or kids. I conclude there’s no evidence he’s gay, and he doesn’t act that way.
Matt Jordan Smith is a confusing fellow. Some of his mannerisms, especially the way he moves his mouth when he talks, could be seen as faggoty. But then there was also something quite masculine about him. At the end of the day, I thought he was just another soft-spoken straight guy. I did some Googling on him too and found nothing about him being gay. Nor did I find anything about a wife or kids. Then I found his homepage. He’s a director, writer and actor. Click photos on his homepage. No way on Earth is this man gay. Look at the expressions on his face, in his eyes, how he holds his body and his face. There is a real hard masculinity about this man. I don’t see how it’s possible that he’s gay.
One more thing to consider is that I lived and worked in this area for years. I hung out in Hollywood almost every weekend for years. Hollywood is a bizarre place. Sure, it’s full of gay and bisexual people, but not everyone there is like that, trust me. But one interesting thing is that a lot of the straight men around Hollywood act a little bit queer. That’s just the “Hollywood way to act.” You’re simply supposed to sort of talk like a queer and act like one. That’s called “being Hollywood.” You would be surprised how many straight men in Hollywood act a little faggoty just because that’s considered hip behavior in that crazy city.
I really thought both of these guys acted more “Hollywood” or “Californian” than gay, and as I found out below, I am probably correct.
Later I found out that both of these men live in West Hollywood. WeHo of course is a very gay city in Los Angeles. It’s full of gay men.
However, it’s also Ground Zero for the film industry in LA, and it’s full of actors, actresses, models, directors, producers, writers, film editors, stylists, photographers, cinematographers, musicians, etc. I am quite certain that these men are living there because they are in the industry and not because they are gay.
