The worst part is when your a straight guy, but your not a confident leader. That makes you look really bad in front of ladies. Actually, you can even be a shy guy, but if you can show your “good at what you do” then you can win over people.
Shy guys don’t approach women, so they can go long periods without having sex or even dating, they can stay single a long time, be long-term bachelors, etc. I am sure that a lot of these incel guys are very shy.
The problem is that introverted shy guys get treated like garbage by society at large, so that just makes them even more shy. I have met a few retarded women who think shy guys are “pedophiles, serial killers, rapists or psychos.” It is absolute bullshit as shy men are incredibly less violent than extroverted men.
So the shy guy not only gets treated like complete shit by almost everyone, he also gets accused of being a child molester, a murderer, a rapist and other lunatic notions. After a while he gets really terrified to approach much of anyone, much less a woman because he just assumes he is going to get rejected. I honestly do not blame them.
Think of this. If most of the last 50 times you approached a woman, she blew you off, was cruel to you, acted like you were a creep, or accused you of being a depraved criminal, you would see a woman over there, think about going over to talk to her, remember what a catastrophe it was the last 50 times, and just figure the same thing is going to happen this time as happened the last 50 times. Do you blame them. How can anyone say that shy men are acting irrationally. They are acting all too rationally.
