I want to take this time to thank you, my sisters for all the advice you shared on the post The Infidelity All Around Is Affecting My Happy Marriage over these past several days.
I soaked up everyone’s advice and I also felt a little childish when I read what some of you have endured. But the way you came out of it, stronger and more confident tells me that if I have the same thing happen to me, I’ll be okay.
I guess it all boils down to this: That first we can’t let our marriage define who we are. But if we take care of ourselves, do the best for our husband, tend to their needs and make time for him, maintain the house and raise the kids that there shouldn’t be anything to worry about.
I got tired just typing that but I guess that’s what they mean when they say we have to work on our relationships.
I can’t control what the future holds but all I know is after reading your advice, it’s his loss if he strays but a solid marriage can find its way to the way things used to be.
Thank you for making me feel comfortable going to you with my problems and for taking time to share your advice me with and all the other girlies who may have this fear too but afraid or ashamed to express it.
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