They don’t really consume your everyday thoughts anymore as much as they sued too. Sure, when the breakup was still fresh, you couldn’t just help but think about your relationship – your failed relationship. Your waking thoughts used to be consumed by your ex. But nowadays, you rarely think about them. And that’s a sign that you’ve really moved on.
2. Whenever you run into your ex in public, you don’t just turn into a rambling puddle of mud anymore. You don’t completely lose yourself and act hysterical. In fact, you don’t really feel your heart race anymore. You just keep your cool and your composure. You act normally as you would with any other person.
3. You have engaged with romantic relations (and even sexual ones) with new people and they don’t really feel awkward. At first, when you just started dating after your breakup, it felt really weird. You felt uncomfortable connecting with someone who wasn’t your ex. But now, it doesn’t feel weird at all. It feels really natural for you to be exploring your options. It feels okay for you to be opening yourself up to love again.
4. You actually start to forget very specific details about the relationship that you used to hold dear. When you were in the relationship, you were obsessing over the little details. You were always paying so much attention to everything. But nowadays, they all seem so trivial and insignificant. In fact, you don’t really remember much of them anymore.
5. You don’t really feel any anger or hatred for your ex. If at this point, you still hate your ex, then it would be fair to say that you’re not really over them. You still have feelings for them – albeit, negative ones. But the fact is that the feelings remain and you haven’t moved on yet. But if you’re feeling more indifferent now, then that’s a sign that you’ve definitely moved on.
6. You don’t really stalk your ex on the internet anymore. You don’t try to ask mutual friends about the whereabouts and activities of your ex. In fact, you don’t really concern yourself much about how your ex is living their life at this point. You are just far too concerned with your own life. You are too caught up with everything that you have going for yourself and you’ve definitely moved on. You don’t try to orchestrate seemingly random run-ins anymore. You don’t try to involve yourself in your ex’s life anymore.
