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10 Failsafe Moves To Rekindle Romance

By Bren @Virtual_Bren

10 Failsafe Moves To Rekindle Romance With The One That Got Away

Do you spend all or most of your day thinking about how much you miss your ex? Are you constantly angry with yourself for letting him fall through the net? Do you wish you could have just one more conversation, and see if you can give your relationship another go? If so, it’s not quite time to give up just yet. There are steps you can take, and things you can do to try and rekindle the romance. Follow this advice to make positive strides and hopefully, win your ex back.

10 Failsafe Moves To Rekindle Romance With The One That Got Away Do you spend all or most of your day thinking about how much you miss your ex?

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Give each other space

You’ve broken up for a reason, and you both need to take time to digest the situation and work out what went wrong. Take a couple of weeks to think and reflect. Don’t text each other, call or stalk each other on social media. See how you feel without him being there all the time. If you miss him, and you feel down, this is a sign that you still love him. But, love is not always enough to make a relationship work.

Weigh up the pros and cons of being together

If you had a stormy relationship, which ended bad, think about the pros and cons of your relationship. What did you get out of it? Were you stressed or unhappy most of the time? Breakups can be hard, but they can also be valuable life lessons. You don’t want to waste your time continually worrying about your relationship. Yes, relationships require compromise, but they shouldn’t be difficult all the time. The highlights should be much more frequent than the low points. Work out if your relationship made you happier than you are being single.

Think about whether anything has changed since you split

No couples split for no reason. There must have contributing factors, so reflect on whether anything has changed. Was distance an issue? Were you arguing all the time? Were you guilty of putting work or other people before each other? If you do want to get back together with your ex, think about how things would be different this time. Work out whether it would be possible to implement the necessary changes to make your relationship a success. If you decide that it would be possible, arrange to meet up and talk. Consult http://exbackexpertise.com/ for advice and tips before you head to the all-important first reunion.

Be open and honest with each other

When you meet for a chat, it’s essential to be as open and honest as possible. Lay your cards out on the table and talk about how you feel about each other. Discuss what you both want to do in the future and work out whether you want to give your relationship another go. Now is the time to rake up any problems, which rumbled on throughout your relationship. It’s important that you leave this meeting knowing exactly where you stand.

Be open and honest with each other When you meet for a chat, it’s essential to be as open and honest as possible.

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Arrange another first date

If you want to give things another go, arrange another first date. Make it fun and relaxed. Go to the ice rink or wander around the zoo. Hit the beach or play basketball. Don’t put any pressure on yourselves and enjoy each other’s company. Don’t talk about the past. Pretend it’s your first ever date and get to know each other again. Make an effort to impress. Enjoy the familiarity of the situation, as well as the excitement of a new beginning. For more awesome first date ideas, check out http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/g2928/creative-first-date-ideas/.

Arrange another first date If you want to give things another go, arrange another first date. Make it fun and relaxed.

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Don’t force things

When you first get back with an ex, it’s easy to force the issue and try and make sure that everything is perfect from day one. The reality is that no relationship is without its flaws. Don’t put pressure on each other and take it steady. There’s no rush. Let your relationship evolve and develop naturally.

Learn from the past

Don’t dwell on the past, but make sure you both learn from it. You don’t want to enjoy a blissful honeymoon period and then find that you’re dealing with the same old issues again. Take problems into consideration and work on ironing them out and moving forward. If you’ve been guilty of not spending enough time together, set this straight from day one. Organise a weekly date night or devote your weekends to each other.

Draw a line

Once you’ve identified problems and started to work on them, draw a line and move on. Don’t keep bringing up the same issues if you have an argument or let the past affect your new relationship. Once it’s all out in the open, that’s it. If you keep dragging up old dirt, the likelihood is that you’ll find yourself in exactly the same situation.

Make your relationship your priority

If you’ve just started seeing your ex again, make your relationship your priority. You’ve spent weeks feeling miserable and wishing you were together, so put all your efforts into making it work. Make sacrifices for each other and put each other first. Make time for one another and be there for each other. Don’t spend all your time together, as space is healthy. See your friends and family and carry on with interests and hobbies. But make it clear that you’re eager for the relationship to succeed.

Make your relationship your priority If you’ve just started seeing your ex again, make your relationship your priority.

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Look towards the future

The past has been and gone, so focus on the present and look to the future. Organise some fun activities and outings. Book a holiday and start counting down the days. Spend time together with your friends and families and just enjoy being together again. Don’t rush into any grand plans, but give yourself a steady stream of things to look forward to.

It can be heart-breaking to lose somebody you love, but a break-up is not always the end. If you feel like there’s still a chance of making a relationship work, don’t be afraid to stand up and fight for it. Be honest with each other and learn from past mistakes. Make an effort to move forward and start having fun again.

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