How many times have we told some one that they should change their actions, moods, attitudes, or any negative attribute of their being? How many times do we want a person to change the way they are acting or do particular things and with ease we are easily annoyed to the core. We may want to tell them about themselves or demand that if they do not change their ways we will do some drastic act in the likes of not speaking to them, or even begin to reevaluate our friendship or dealings with such a person.
Well Shiners I am actually here to give you a bit of news that you may not want to hear-YES they may need to change but so do we.
Now wait before you get defensive let me explain. I have noticed on more that a few occasions that we let their foolish, ignorant, and careless actions get the better of us and now due to these shenanigans we are pissed off to all ends. I say instead of losing our cool WE will change how WE react, because if you think about it their the ones who demonstrate these actions daily or on a frequent basis and what do we do EXPLODE! Well no more~we will not let the actions of others knock us off our square.
Here are the rules:*Their is to be NO reaction. All raw emotion must go. This is what makes us go nuts from their actions. NO emotion towards it surfaces no reaction.
*Expect them to continue to be this way, if we do this their will be no surprises. If we are not surprised their will be no reaction.
*NO Questions-questioning about the antics they display will only dig up emotions and reactions, so no questions no reactions. Got it?!! I hope so!!! :)
*Lastly tune them out-Now this I know is easier said than done, but of we do our best to tune them out then their is no emotions, no questions, no reaction.So Shiners if we follow the rules then we are the ones who change.
So I will end with this: "Remember that nothing can break you~give it no power! And with no power it has no ability to break your positivity" Ms. Positivity
And that is how we change....Shine On Shiners!
