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What's the Female Term for Lothario?

By Elliemendz @EllieMendz
"If you want to sacrifice the admiration of many men for the criticism of one, go ahead, get married."- Katharine Hepburn
Hi friends! It's your super busy friend, Bree. I have to apologize for not writing sooner but I have been busy juggling my three acts. The interesting thing is that there have been a couple weekends when I was flying solo. All of them had other plans. I actually did benefit from having some downtime, spending time with the gals and catching up on DVR. 
It's been a crazy busy time between the trio. I got to meet some of Mac Guy's friends last week. Surprisingly, most of the guys seemed non-geek types. There was one geeky guy that we ended up hanging out with most of the evening. I had a lot of fun checking out the friends, especially the one with the buff arms. If I wasn't with Mac Guy, I probably would have introduced myself. Definitely have a policy of look but don't touch.
I had a wonderful and amazing evening with my Co-Worker on Saturday night. I would like to describe what happened but I want to keep this PG rated. He had injured his knee the night before while working out. Apparently, he felt a lot better after he left my place. Maybe Marvin Gaye was on to something.
The Comedian and I have had a couple brief dates over the past few weeks. I am wondering if there is a guy version of The Rules and if so, has he been reading them? He definitely leaves me wanting more. I just want to spend time with him, hear his voice, and see his smile. Yeah, sickening, I know. (Bleechh)
Last night, my sister and I went to see The Comedian perform. He is absolutely astonishing. I am so attracted to him that it's not even funny. I thought of myself as a female lothario (at least for now), a Don Juana. I thought I could act like a guy, logical, cool, emotionally detached, and knows what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. As soon as I see the Comedian, I get very emotional inside. My heart literally races when I see him, my hands sweat, etc. I can't help but grin like an idiot.
This is the first time in several years that I have had such intense feelings for anyone. It scares the hell out of me. I thought I had put the kibosh on this annoying new crush on it a couple weeks ago. Then I saw him on stage and I was back to the drooling, grinning, and giggling girl again. 
We were sitting with his fellow comedians last night after the show. My sis and I both felt that we were inside of The Jersey Shore for a moment. He was talking to one of the cast members who was clearly inebriated. I was suppressing a slight twinge of jealousy/irritation. Luckily, the conversation ended and he talked to me a bit about our plans for the weekend. About 2-3 weeks ago, he had invited me to go with him and some of his friends to spend the weekend at family property out of town. At that time, he said I could stay in my own room and he'd be on the couch. (I'm wondering if that will still play out.)
I am nervous and excited about this weekend. To me, this time is pivotal. Either I'm really going to like him or I'll be over him. 
Despite my feelings, I am enjoying my player status. I love having the attention of several men. At some point, I would like to have a boyfriend but am not in any hurry. I'm also starting to do some research about my birthday as it's coming up soon. One dilemma is should I invite any of the guys to my celebration or should I try to find new guys? Time will tell. 
Until next time! 
Cheers, Bree 

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