Polysingleish

LATEST ARTICLES ( 97 )

• Sensual Blogger Award

  

  So, whilst I was busy looking the other way and ignoring wordpress for a few days, I was awarded not just one, but two awards. They happen to be the same award... Read more

  Posted on 26 May 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• What’s Done, Is Done.

  

  “Things without all remedy Should be without regard: what’s done, is done.” ~ William ShakespeareWhen I walked into Finn’s place, the cat greeted me... Read more

  Posted on 23 May 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Deconstructing Definitions

  

  Life would get very boring if we didn’t keep learning new things about ourselves. I’ve been trying to remember when the first time I learnt about bisexuality... Read more

  Posted on 22 May 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Community Communications

  

  I am really tired of all the poly forums.I mean, I love them for all they have connected me to, and all the wisdom I have garnered from everyone sharing, and... Read more

  Posted on 19 May 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Malfunctioning Mothers

  

  Mother’s day is hard for me.Most people will assume it is because of the miscarriages, because of my children that never were. But it really isn’t. Read more

  Posted on 12 May 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Liberating the Libido

  

  “I don’t really have a huge sex drive”The words sputtered out of my mouth like a confession at a twelve step meeting. I was chatting with my friend Claus. Read more

  Posted on 11 May 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Shifting Sands

  

  Breakups are one of the strangest things to do. Even more so in the poly world.The last time I broke up with someone- as in, I was the person saying ‘I don’t... Read more

  Posted on 07 May 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Exorcising the Exhaustion

  

  I’m tired.Actually, I take that back.I’m exhausted.I feel drained physically, mentally, and emotionally. My friend Kat bugged me the other day about the fact... Read more

  Posted on 27 April 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Self Sacrifices

  

  So- what makes for a ‘healthy relationship’? Is it how much time is spent together? Or is it how that time together is spent? Is it the ability to match each... Read more

  Posted on 22 April 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Pain, Perception, Peace

  

  I’m sitting in my bedroom with most of the lights off. Cafe Del Mar is playing in the background. A tasty bowl of coconut cream chocolate pudding is sitting in... Read more

  Posted on 18 April 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Orgasmic Odyssey

  The female orgasm is a fascinating thing.I find there is so much diversity to orgasms. They can range from small tremors, to full body tectonic shifting... Read more

  Posted on 11 April 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Integrating Intimacy

  

  ” Enlightenment is intimacy with all things.” ~Dogen ZenjiI found myself smiling from ear to ear a few nights ago as ElkFeather and I caught up over a little... Read more

  Posted on 08 April 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• A Potpourri of Poly Partnership Possibilities

  

  Recent conversations have had me musing on the nature of monogamy-polyamory as an ‘orientation’. Dan Savage remarked once that he didn’t think that being Poly... Read more

  Posted on 07 April 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Conscious Connecting

  

  “Relationships aren’t about making you happy, they are about making you conscious.” ~ Eckhart TolleI have a friend in the poly-world who seems to have an issue... Read more

  Posted on 27 March 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• The Very Inspiring Blogger Award

  

  Hugs to Lifeofalovergirl for nominating me for the (creatively titled) “Very Inspiring Blogger Award”!This is my second award, and I am very flattered to have... Read more

  Posted on 25 March 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Present and Playful

  

  As the words singleish and polysingleish begin to squeeze their way into the poly lexicon (hurrah! I am an inventor of words!) I feel compelled to offer a... Read more

  Posted on 21 March 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Picking Priorities

  

  I am curious about the logic process going on in each individual as they decide how they spend their time, and with whom. There has to be some way, when two or... Read more

  Posted on 11 March 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Candid Courtship

  

  On my first date with Loki we got into a conversation about chivalry, and the question of, “Is chivalry dead?”. Our conversation rapidly diverged to bananas,... Read more

  Posted on 07 March 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• The Compersion Conundrum

  

  Compersion: Describing an empathetic state of happiness and joy brought about by knowing or witnessing the happiness and joy of another individual. Read more

  Posted on 04 March 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Time and Tenacity

  

  I don’t want to dance around the subject anymore, or pretty it up with metaphors or stories. It is time to talk about Time Management.Yes, that’s right- Time... Read more

  Posted on 03 March 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY