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LATEST ARTICLES ( 97 )

• Musings on Monogamy and Marriage

  

  “Biologically, we are not prepared for monogamy, whereas our culture tells us that Monogamy is something we should do.” ~Dr David P Barash, co-author, The Myth... Read more

  Posted on 22 January 2014 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Engaging in Excellence

  

  There’s poly folks who will swear they have all the relationship answers.They are adamant that being poly makes them better communicators, better lovers etc. bu... Read more

  Posted on 10 January 2014 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Dancing Out The Demons

  

  “Wholeness comes from not condemning any aspect of yourself, but inviting those aspects to merge with your Heart. Wholeness comes from being open to expand... Read more

  Posted on 29 December 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Knowing Your “No”s

  

  The first word I ever said, was “No”, and it’s a word that I have been contemplating a lot recently.I’m finding myself moving into a space of exploring my Dom... Read more

  Posted on 29 November 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Facing Fears and Finding Flow

  

  “The essence of bravery is being without self deception. However, it is not easy to take a straight look at what we do. Seeing ourselves clearly is initially... Read more

  Posted on 24 November 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Shame and Sexuality

  

  What do you know of great love? Have you ever loved a woman until milk leaked from her as though she had just given birth to love itself, and now must feed it o... Read more

  Posted on 22 October 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Friendships and Flirtations

  

  “It’s not about finding your soul-mate, M. It’s about getting to know someone a whole lot better, and in a totally different way.”These words were spoken to me... Read more

  Posted on 07 September 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Flat Out Flirt Fail

  

  . Flat out flirt fail. Say it ten times really fast! Go on! I had an interesting vacation.In case you are new to my blog, I’ll let you know I’m definitely an... Read more

  Posted on 21 August 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Sobering up to Shame Around Sex

  

  I find my mind oscillating about what approach would be healthiest right now when it comes to Sex.On the one hand, I need more sex. Read more

  Posted on 06 August 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Magical Mysterious Maybe

  

  ‎”Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” ~ Carl JungI’ve been thinking about three little words:... Read more

  Posted on 23 July 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Ménage à Matrimony

  

  Alright, let’s get something straight.Married people are awesome. Couples are awesome. Two people who make a life long commitment to one another, and stick to i... Read more

  Posted on 17 July 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Letting Love Live

  

  It’s Thursday evening. The windows are open and a warm summer breeze is drifting through my home. Natalie Imbruglia is warbling through my iPhone and I’m lickin... Read more

  Posted on 12 July 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Pruning Privilege

  

  Okay. This is going to be controversial.This article may well piss people off. It may even offend some and anger even people who I hold dear. It is an article... Read more

  Posted on 11 July 2013 RELATIONSHIPS, SOCIETY

• Expanding Enterprises.

  

  If there is one time of the year when everyone should flirt with being a teensy little more poly than usual, then Summer is that time.Sadly, I think my flirt... Read more

  Posted on 07 July 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Forever Flirtatious

  

  http://kimchicuddles.com/In July, this blog turns one year old.I started the blog as a means of processing out loud and sharing my experiences and insights... Read more

  Posted on 29 June 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Needing Novelty

  

  “I want to explore more of our connection. I feel like we are moving towards something that will be exciting and profound.”I gazed out at the full moon, bright... Read more

  Posted on 26 June 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Castrating Cupid

  

  hello there. You are an amazing source of positive energy. Hence I’m drawn to you. ….I’m poly curious. So much so that I’m seeking two poly bi Fs for a triad.... Read more

  Posted on 12 June 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Pandora Percolating

  

  “I’m afraid. And I need to acknowledge this verbally, that although I don’t want to, some part of me is holding back in sharing all my love, all this love that ... Read more

  Posted on 06 June 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Working the Willpower

  

  The other evening, after work, I went for dinner with an ex. Any readers who follow my Facebook page would have seen my self mantra of “I will not sleep with... Read more

  Posted on 05 June 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY

• Breaking the Boxes

  

  Right now, I’m supposed to be working on my resume. It is about as bizarre and eclectic as the rest of my life is. Can I include “blogging about my sex and... Read more

  Posted on 03 June 2013 DATING, EROTICA, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY