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NZ Muse
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Personal finance, career, relationship, food and travel talk from a 20-something Antipodean.
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What If You Lost Your Wallet Tomorrow?
How many different cards do you have? Do you keep any others anyplace else? I’m not sure I will ever have multiple credit cards. I like to keep it simple. Read more
Posted on 20 May 2022 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
5 Steps to Crush Your Money Goals This Year
Looking back over my adult life, especially in the past few years, I've pulled off a few things that just didn't ever seem within reach. Mostly financial, to... Read more
Posted on 02 January 2022 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
“Money Doesn’t Buy Happiness” – GTFO with Your BS!
Only two types of people say this. Those who have more than enough money, or those who don't have it and never will. This is what I've observed, over and over. ... Read more
Posted on 08 December 2021 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
3 Steps to Getting What You Want
Hustle culture would have you believe that you just need to grind to reach your biggest goals. NOPE. It starts with cultivating unshakeable belief in yourself.... Read more
Posted on 30 November 2021 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
What Are You Feeding Your Mind? Hacking Your Brain Like It’s the Facebook...
Humans. We're complex and unpredictable. Yet deep down we all just want a few basic things - to feel seen, heard, understood. Our minds are so incredibly... Read more
Posted on 31 August 2021 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
Money, Mindset, and Manifesting: Why I’m Now Making Mindset Work a Daily Practice
Years ago, I noticed something odd. Little windfalls seemed to come my way just after I gave money to a charitable cause. This happened over and over again. Tha... Read more
Posted on 02 August 2021 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
Money Always Needs a Purpose. What’s Yours?
Every dollar has a job. That's the principle behind a budget. If you don't have a purpose in mind for your money, you're not going to have it for long. Likewise... Read more
Posted on 14 July 2021 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
All the Things I’ve Learned from the Single Most Important Relationship in My...
I have a funny relationship with external validation. I crave it more than anything else. It gives me the most delightful warm glow in my belly. But I also... Read more
Posted on 05 July 2021 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
3 Times Insurance Totally Saved Me in the Last Year
I've had a lot of reasons to be thankful for insurance over the past year. When insurance companies come through on claims, it's so worth it. Getting a new... Read more
Posted on 09 June 2021 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
The Way You Imagined It May Not Be the Way It Actually Happens
I recently had a client - let's call her Ana - bail on a project. This was a real blow. It was an expansion on something we'd done together previously - I was s... Read more
Posted on 12 May 2021 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
How I’ve Started Doing Shadow Work (and Why It Matters)
What is shadow work and why the hell should I care? This, along with reparenting, is pretty new to my lexicon. It's all part of healing. Moving forward in life... Read more
Posted on 30 March 2021 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
5 No-regrets Purchases That Make Life with a Toddler WAY Easier
Voila! A list of things that are making life way better. Because toddlers are hard work. In comparison, it feels like we needed so many more baby products when... Read more
Posted on 24 February 2021 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
Money & Marriage: Navigating the Awkward Conversations and More
True story. When I was in my teens, the most important advice my parents saw fit to pass on to me about relationships was to get tested ... to check that my... Read more
Posted on 17 February 2021 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
Lockdown Silver Linings? In Which I Try to Find Some Meaning in 2020
Oh, 2020. What is there to say? Were there pros to the pandemic? Silver linings in the lockdowns? The one that first comes to mind is work flexibility. The... Read more
Posted on 21 January 2021 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
What I Learned from My Kid’s Disappointment in a Crappy Christmas Present
As a rule follower, I shouldn't be surprised by now when other people don't play by the rules. Especially in this case. Gifts for kids are fraught! The daycare... Read more
Posted on 22 December 2020 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
Are Regular Baby Formulas Not Working for You? Here’s What to Try Next
What baby formula should I buy for my infant? It's a question that probably only keeps getting harder to answer. There's a huge spectrum of formulas out there... Read more
Posted on 14 December 2020 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
The REAL Reason Parenting is So Dang Hard
Think you're emotionally healthy and mature? Odds are, parenting will make you rethink that. Parenting is, some days, like one consistent trigger. The constant... Read more
Posted on 12 November 2020 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
You Can Be Grateful for What You Have … AND Strive for More
Let me guess. Everything you've heard or read about getting through this goddamn pandemic involves practicing GRATITUDE. Gratitude is great Yes, there's a lot t... Read more
Posted on 13 October 2020 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
When There’s No Substitute for Doing the Work
I'm often bemused at what people expect from technology. Nothing works perfectly 100% of the time. Yes, I work in digital. No, I don't know why that email... Read more
Posted on 06 September 2020 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL -
An Ode to the Ex-flatmate
It's funny how things turn out sometimes. We set up the larger of our spare rooms on Airbnb at the start of 2017. Got our first guest, and then, boom - a... Read more
Posted on 26 May 2020 COMMUNITY, TRAVEL