If you are the primary caregiver for your elderly parents, it can often be an overwhelming experience to say the least. If you’re looking for some tips for improving the experience for both of you, or would just like a little extra help in doing so, we’ve put together some tips.
Educate yourself as much as possible Especially if your mom or dad (or both) that you’re caring for has a health problem, it’s a really good idea to educate yourself about their condition as much as possible so you’ll understand what they need and at what stages. Speak to your GP and research online on reputable sites like the NHS website for extra help and advice.
Listen to their needs and concerns As well as communicating with yours and their GPs, it’s obviously essential that you regularly communicate with your parents so that their needs are fully being seen to. This is a good way to maintain a positive relationship and to ensure that they are as happy as comfortable as possible.
Be on the lookout for any new problems Remaining alert to new problems will be really important, as this will be something that a health care professional will always be looking out for. It’s vital that you identify any new problems so that you can make adjustments accordingly and so that new health issues don’t develop into something more serious.
Adapt to change and new ideas The way we deal and treat health issues are constantly changing and developing, so it’s a good idea to be able to ‘get with the times’ and try out new methods of treatments and care-giving. This is especially important if your parent suffers with a complex illness, too.
Look after yourself It’s vital that you look after yourself in terms of your physical and mental health too, not only so that you can stay happy and healthy, but also so that you can obviously give your loved one the care they need. Ensure you get enough rest, a good diet and aren’t doing too much to avoid a burn-out.
Take some time out for yourself Taking some time to do things you love with your family, friends or even by yourself is really important for maintaining good spirits and so that you can continue doing a fantastic job as well as enjoying your own life.
Seek out support for caregivers You are not alone and you don’t have to do everything by yourself. Looking to other carers for support and companionship is a great way to cope, especially during harder times. There’s a great support network that’s worth having a look at here.
Know when it’s time to get professional help You are very unlikely to be able to care for your loved one for the rest of their lives, especially if they have a serious or complex illness and if you have other responsibilities. There is no shame in looking for some extra elderly care at home from professionals such as http://www.extracareathome.org.uk/.
