Hello Aunty;
Several days ago I discovered that my man was cheating on me with a foot pump. Ever since I have felt very deflated.
Is there anything I can do?
Wendy, Bolton
Dear Wendy,
Men are creatures of habit and it may well be that you haven’t been paying him full attention, hence his preoccupation with matters of the motoring kind.
If he’s feeling under pressure at work or home he needs a release valve and seems to have found it in the boot of his car. Tread carefully but you need to get to the hub of the problem before it escalates. Perhaps he’s tired of the domestic routine although it’s too early to gauge.
Without wishing to put a spanner in the works I suggest that if you spoke to him about your concerns he may well realize the error of his ways and realize he has been acting a bit nuts. With a little effort you may be able to repair this relationship without puncturing his hopes for the future.
Just be thankful it’s a foot pump and not one of the flash ones down the local petrol station. Although you have to pay to use them, the hoses are so much longer and once it gets going the vibration is something else!
Aunty
