Embrace Party Culture

Embrace party culture. You are not your party, but your party is more than likely an important part (or plays an important part in) who you are.
It's human to plan and/or cater your own event well - be depicted as being capable, that's a normal part of the culture that we live in. So, embrace that aspect about yourself and use it to enrich the lives of your loved ones.
Don't deny this or apologize for it; I wouldn't and don't. For to apologize is to limit the experience and how you express yourself within it.
Get ready to make history and to make yourself proud. 
Celebrate. Celebrate having the freedom to create events that highlight your ancestry culturally and through parties... speak for your design styles, die for ideas; the freedom ensued to provoke, entice, and delight parties of any type that we choose.
But there is another freedom to claim... consider how fundamental celebrations and parties are to our lives. It's what going through the effort of planning something represents in our hearts - freedom to express ourselves to our families and friends - freedom to express who we want to be.
Embrace party culture... inform and enrich lives through entertaining.