I use this mantra to pick my fights because some things are just not worth the amount of energy required to even open my mouth. I've also begun to adopt the mantra for my wardrobe because sometimes I look at certain things which I got when they were all the rave locally and I ask myself: Really? Having simple Ankara shirts that I can wear with denim pants matter to me right now and I believe that in years to come they'd still be relevant. So, I've added a couple Ankara shirts in my wardrobe and I know I'll be adding more with time. 
