A lot has happened in recent times that has made me wonder when will reality come or is it still coming.
From childhood till growing up, it has been a phase of progression, downsizing, sad, happy and all moments curbed in one atmosphere. You wake up to different sounds, words, stories and it keeps you always on the journey of your memory lane.
But then, I stay grateful for today because as much as I wished I knew them then, I am also grateful I know them now.
That is the basic principle of appreciation, I still bite my fingers any time I have to hear something I thought I should have known but ignored. So here are a few things I wished I knew before now:
- Life is not a bed of roses and even roses have thorns: We always refuse to accept that the storms will definitely come, personally I am not a strong fan of negatives based on what I believe and my Spirituality but then every level of life states this.
I have always journeyed through life in all its goodness, trust me I never want to match a brake driving from My days as a child till I graduated College, but then just like a car designed for a season without your permission, the sweet ride hold its brake and the sun rays of reality come through your windscreen hitting real hard on your face.
So I have to foot some bills for myself, I have to get clothes for myself, I have to sit in an office from morning till night, loving what I do or doing what they love, nevertheless that's still reality.
Why was I not told earlier, I mutter. Why did they ever even have to pay my bills if they knew a time would come and I will be left to my own fate, but then again that's reality, you can't erase, you just need to keep writing.
And now I am glad I have learnt to gradually accept the responsibility of helping others take out a few thorns from theirs and make them know these things earlier than I did.
- No one cares about your pursuit but your purpose: My days of burning my heads in those books with clearly drawn out lines, from learning the first alphabet, to aspiring to be that lady I always saw walking past the hall of the bank all dressed in suit (she looks like a banker) and so I signed up for that.
After college, I know a few were part of the phase of my college life but still everyone ask, what do you want to do now after school. They know but then this is just reality.
They really do not care what you studied but they want to know what you have to offer and that right there is your purpose. Sometimes our purpose on earth is not necessarily tied to our Certificate.
You might just need another certificate and that is the certificate of hard work but this is different because just you know about this. Nobody usually pays attention to how you carry out what you have to offer but everyone rejoices in your ultimate success, We are all victims.
And now I am glad I have learnt to teach people to define their purpose and find their own unique path through the journey and be sitting on the mountain top stool sipping my coffee and awaiting their ultimate success.
- Life has no duplicate: You definitely will be wondering how I did not know this but this is very true because I heard good stories of how people die and they find themselves in China.
That was not convincing but I only began to accept the phrase of "Life has no duplicate" in my stage of growth.
We still suffer ignorance of these sometimes because you would not want to put yourself into some kind of risk if you were conscious of this, but then that is only reality.
We live each day like it's our last, provide solutions, help life and enjoy every moment because now we know better.
In summary I wished I knew that I just had to be an evolution of solution to the next person beside me, but then I am grateful to have gone through the thorns, get stuck in the question of what next battle down the lane of finding solutions(still on that path) and live everyday to be a blessing to helping people achieve all round success and happiness through Personal Mastery.
I am a Solution provider and I am glad I know this now.
So let me hear from you. What do you wish you knew before now? What are you grateful you know now?
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