Why on earth would anybody pay for sex instead of going to a bar/club & getting it that way for a lot less? What’s so special about these “high-end” services?
Getting sex from random amateurs is fine if you’re a single, socially adept vanilla with plenty of free time, no unusual or embarrassing needs, and no need for discretion who doesn’t mind the possibility of STIs, weird drama or the potential for unwanted phone calls, etc later. Most men aren’t in that position. What you’re paying a sex worker for is competence, professionalism, cleanliness & discretion. If you’re OK with fucking incompetent, indiscreet, unpredictable amateurs with questionable sanitary habits, go for it. But remember that free pussy is the most expensive kind. An experienced sex worker provides quality, cleanliness, expertise, punctuality and the kind of company you want, when you want it, instead of having to cater to someone else’s unpredictable needs. A guy who contacts me spends a few minutes in the contact and screening process, then gets a lady of known high quality for however long he can afford. A dude who gets to bars doesn’t know how long it’ll take and gets an encounter of unknown quality, unknown strings & possible STIs. It’s true that sometimes you can find something really valuable for $10 at a junk shop, but it takes time & you can’t count on it. This isn’t rocket science; it’s a simple case of “you get what you pay for”, which is why we’ve been popular with gents since prehistory.
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