Melody S

Description

I am the mother of a beautiful little girl, as well as a full-time PhD student and sessional instructor. This blog is my space to explore parenting ideas, to vent, and to chronicle my journey with trying to juggle motherhood and academia.


MY BLOGS

  • Diapers 'n' Dissertations http://diapersndissertations.blogspot.ca/

    When my daughter was 6 weeks old, I decided to start a blog, in order to chronicle the challenges of trying to balance motherhood with completing and defending my PhD dissertation. I hope that this can be a place to explore ideas, vent (sometimes), and open up a discourse on the joys and difficulties of balancing family and academia.

LATEST ARTICLES ( 32 )

  • Cute/Gross Toddler Activities

    At 21 months, McKenna is a busy, active, and curious toddler, like most kids her age. I try hard not to be a helicopter parent and stifle her curiosity. Read more

    Posted on 25 September 2013 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • Parenting Philosophies

    The other day, I picked up my latest in a long line of parenting books - Kids are Worth It, by Barbara Coloroso. So far, I am agreeing with a lot of what I am... Read more

    Posted on 03 May 2013 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • Reminiscing About My Imperfect, Completely Unnatural Birth

    I have posted about this before (see McKenna's Birth Story), but the past couple of months, it has been weighing heavily on my mind. I had a shitty birth... Read more

    Posted on 07 February 2013 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • Christmas 2012

    McKenna's birthday falls a couple of weeks before Christmas. Being her first birthday, she wasn't overly excited about it, and she already has more than a lot o... Read more

    Posted on 03 January 2013 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • My 2013 Resolutions

    1. You know that old saying "Shit or get off the pot"? Well, I resolve to shit. What I mean by that is that I resolve to stop whining about wanting to lose... Read more

    Posted on 03 January 2013 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • Hitting Kids

    Research suggests that over 90% of American children between the ages of 2 and 5 are subjected to spanking and other forms of corporal punishment (Straus, 2010). Read more

    Posted on 21 December 2012 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • Oh Where, Oh Where Has My Ambition Gone?

    Today was a bit of a strange day for me. For the past 11 months I have been trying to juggle being a full-time mom with also being a full-time student, lecturer... Read more

    Posted on 22 November 2012 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • "The Vaccine Book" by Dr. Sears

    I have just finished reading The Vaccine Book (Sears, 2007), just in time for McKenna's scheduled 12-month vaccinations. In NL, babies get vaccinations at 2,... Read more

    Posted on 14 November 2012 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • Sick as An... Owl?

    Sick An... Owl?

    Once a week McKenna and I meet up with some other moms and babies for a play date. With today being the day before Halloween, the babies all came dressed in... Read more

    Posted on 30 October 2012 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • "I'll Take a Pina Colada and a Pregnancy Test, Please"

    Today, I came across a news article discussing the decision of a pub in Minnesota to sell pregnancy tests out of a vending machine in the women's washroom. Read more

    Posted on 19 September 2012 FAMILY
  • My Fall Wishlist

    Fall Wishlist

    White camisole with black bow - Smart SetBow earrings and necklace - Smart SetColoured belts - Joe FreshBlack heels - AldoBlack lace shirt - Smart SetGray... Read more

    Posted on 27 August 2012 LIFESTYLE
  • Night Weaning

    At almost exactly 4 months of age, McKenna hit the dreaded 4 - month sleep regression. She refused to nap, wouldn't go down at night without a fuss and woke... Read more

    Posted on 21 August 2012 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • Separation

    In my previous post, I mentioned that we are on vacation. On Saturday McKenna and I arrived in Ontario, after spending three weeks with my family in New... Read more

    Posted on 08 August 2012 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • Summer Holidays - Part I

    As a grad student I have the flexibility of taking time off pretty much whenever I want, provided I am not teaching at the time. Read more

    Posted on 08 August 2012 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • How to Lose a Job in 10 Ways

    Recently, I posted an ad online, looking for a babysitter for McKenna. I was clear in my requirements, as well as the hours and rate of pay. Read more

    Posted on 04 July 2012 SELF EXPRESSION
  • A "good" Baby

    My daughter is amazing. She is funny, loving, sweet, wise, tenacious, beautiful, and an all-around happy child. She makes me proud to be her mother each and... Read more

    Posted on 01 June 2012 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • Getting Back At It

    I have wanted to teach and do research for a long time. A very long time. When I found out that I was expecting, I swore up and down that it would not slow me... Read more

    Posted on 17 May 2012 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • A Well-Traveled Baby

    On Sunday, McKenna and I arrived home, after 3 weeks away from home - first to visit her paternal grandparents in Ontario, and then to visit my family in NB. Read more

    Posted on 11 May 2012 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • Breastfeeding at Work?

    A fellow mom recently pointed me towards the breastfeeding inclusion policy at the university. Apparently, not only am I allowed to BF McKenna while at work, bu... Read more

    Posted on 03 April 2012 FAMILY, PARENTING
  • A Rant

    I recently came across a guest post on a parenting website, entitled "5 reasons not to let your child sleep with you". Intrigued, I clicked on it, to see what... Read more

    Posted on 25 March 2012 FAMILY, PARENTING