Tough Love

I have come to realize that I am a tough love kinda-person (aka being cruel to be kind). I do not believe in giving away answers to questions (metaphorically speaking) just because someone is asking me. I make them work for it. For several reasons:

A) I hate answering questions
B) I want to be sure they are not wasting my time & energy

However, I do wonder why people are so incapable to helping themselves. Most answers are out there. You just have to try a little harder and be willing to find them. If someone is continuously holding your hand and walking you through life, you are never really going to understand the process, you know? I do realize how cryptic this post might sound but for once I am trying to walk the thin line of diplomacy and honesty so just work with me y’all!

I guess the point I am trying to make is that people are lazy and they are often too quick to question instead of figuring ‘things’ out for themselves. And I despise lazy, spoon-fed, ignorant people! 

In hindsight though, I do think I lack the ability to sympathize. My attitude to most things in life is, “Sh!t happens. Suck it up. Move on.” So if sh*t happens in both our lives, why does your sh*t matters more than mine? I figured it out, so should you. And you'll thank me later: Tough love! 

Last Day in Nashville, TN 



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