Well we’ve all heard of terrible 2′s but no-one warns you about the onset of the “threenager”, an apt name to describe the strops and tantrums that you may have to endure as they approach 3!
I remember all to well how Jasper turned into a little brat at the drop of a hat, and it didn’t help that I was pregnant at the time too! Of course he was an angel for his nursery teachers, I’ve learnt all too well that children reserve their challenging behaviour for their parents, as quite rightly it’s their boundaries they are trying to find/push!
My daughter at three had her moments, but in fact nowhere near the levels of difficult behaviour I found with Jasper. It could be that as the second child I just learnt to cope better? However 2 of my friends are currently enduring the same with their sons, so this led me to investigate more about the “testosterone surges” that I had heard whispers about.
Having looked around, it appears that testosterone levels in boys can double between the ages of 3 and 4, which should settle to normal levels again at around 5 years old. Growth spurts can also affect their ear canals, so it may be that they can’t hear you, not that they won’t listen!
I found this website useful http://www.preschooldirectory.co.uk/adviceboys.html
Unfortunately I can’t find the same excuse for girls showing such erratic behaviour, but I would say that we need to show them all patience and understanding, and I know all too well how difficult this can be. Try not to beat yourself up if you deal with it wrongly on occasion, the guilt started at the onset of the blue line on the test stick, and I can’t see it getting any less any time soon. I also find when a child is shouting at the top of their range, instead of shouting louder, almost whisper your request and they have to be quiet to hear it – thanks mum for that one 
Thought it was worth sharing?
Thanks for reading.
Annie x
A big thank you to Emma for letting me guest on her wonderful blog. I am also a mummy, not such a super one, but I do work in childcare and have minded around 10 children so far – best job in the world! My blog is varied, I like to think I am more a blogging mummy than a mummy blogger, so although I do write about kid related stuff, I also blog about cooking, playing and bargain hunting! You can find me atwww.justannieqpr.blogspot.com Though I am soon to bewww.justannieqpr.com J
