The Toxic Men Women Seem to Always Date (and Secretly LOVE It)

The first one is a favorite of mine and to many ladies out there, the emotionally unavailable guy. This is the most dangerous of all the toxic men.  He is a problem because he's hard to spot until you are too deep in that you have feelings for him.  You also make a ton of excuses for him as well because you do not know this is the unavailable man.  He does not call, he does not return texts, you see him online on facebook and he will stay on and never talk to you but say he never saw you online, and the secret of women is that you secretly love it because he's elusive and you love the chase.  You'll never catch him, but you always think you can change him or you'll be the one that he will finally fall for.
When he spends time with you, it's amazing and wonderful.  When you ever talk about a relationship or taking it further, there is always the best excuses from this unemotional man; it's usually "bad timing" or "he doesn't have enough time to dedicate to you", "he just got out of a relationship and doesn't want to rush into another one", or he just flat out tells you "I'm not ready for a relationship".  The problem is that you continue to chase him, it could last years.  If it does last years, you start to call him your boyfriend, but girl...he isn't and never will be.  I'm sure all of his problems are hard; he lost his job, his grandma died, etc., but in a real relationship you lean on each other in the hard times, you do not use those as excuses to not date.  Wake up ladies! Like the famous movie and book says; he's just not that into you.

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The Second Type that all the women will be nodding their head to while reading this is the bad boy.  Oh yes, he looks cool, he's mysterious, and he has that thing that just draws you to him.  He has a sweet car, nice clothes and style, a whole lot of swagger, and...always seems to live with his mom.  That's ok we tell ourselves, it's just temporary and he's trying to get his life together, trying to get back on his feet.  That bad boy does what he wants when he wants, although it always seems that when you are over visiting him, the 30 year old "bad boy" is always arguing with his mom about laundry.  That's ok you tell yourself, let's just push that to the side because he's hot and everyone wants him, but I'm the one that has him! Aren't I the lucky one!  Yes, 30 year old high school drop outs are hot commodities out on the streets of other high school drop outs going no where living with their moms.  You'll keep telling yourself how hot he is until the luster wears off and you realize he's going to play the bad boy card until he's 90 thinking he's Hugh Hefner while driving a Pinto.  He's not James Dean.  He's just James no name from down the street.

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Our next lovely candidate produces himself in a flash.  He takes you on a great date, he pays, he picks you up, and you have a lovely time.  He isn't emotionally unavailable and he does not have hardly any baggage.  He doesn't live with his mom and he has his own place.  He has a medium type job, maybe went to a community college, but never followed through on his degree, but he seems like a put together guy.  Then the first signs starts to show.  One day as you two are enjoying your relationship time together, he says he has something he's dreading to ask you, but he has to ask.  He asks you for twenty bucks because he isn't getting paid until Friday and he has no gas.  Ladies, this is the mooch.  He seems like his life is semi put together, but once you give him that twenty bucks and he promises to pay you back this Friday when he gets his check (which will never happen because he will have another excuse as to why he can't pay you back), he will keep asking for more and more money.  He'll keep telling you how much he loves you and how he will be making it up to you in the future and before you know it you're cashing out all of your IRA's and handing him ten grand.  He'll never pay you back, he'll never make it up to you, and you'll just one day end up leaving him because you're sick of it and he'll move onto his next mark (I mean girl) and do it to her as well.  Then you have to scramble for the next six months, you have no more investments to speak of, and have to get your life back on track like it was before you met this charismatic son of a bitch.

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There are many different types of men to look out for, I've just hit the tip of the iceberg.  I could end up doing 10 more articles about men to watch out for.  Maybe next time I will do an article for men about the types of ladies to watch out for and believe me, there are a ton of those as well!