When the naughty step just does not work for you or when you have older children I use the One Strike Rule technique which does work. The one strike rule can stop bad behavouir and does not give your child the attention that the naughty step does. For older children I find this method of discipline works best.
Word of warning – do not rush into this technique, if you have no discipline already in place.
By using the One Strike Rule your child will see this as you ignoring them. They will play up all the more to get your attention, be prepared.
What is the One Strike Rule?
No warning is given
When a child breaks rules/boundaries you remove them from the room
Older children can be asked to leave the room and to return when they can apologise and behave
If they return to the room or refuse to leave then you remove them – giving them no attention whatsoever – avoid talking/eye contact
The tone of voice must change to a low boss like voice
Keep this up until you get the desired result you are aiming for – an apology
Once apologised, praise your child for saying sorry and allow them to join back in with what is happening
Bear in mind your child will NOT appreciate this new technique and WILL protest.
