This morning I was treated to a beautiful mothers day event at MM's daycare and a very happy face when I said I would be there:
Firstly there was some time for play. It was such a treat to be able to see MM interacting with his little friends and an insight into what the average day looks like for him- whilst I am slaving away at work :-). It was lovely to see him so comfortable there and clearly having a great time:
And then there were cupcakes to decorate:
And morning tea to eat and enjoy:
But the biggest treat came in a form that I was not expecting. Some validation that can only come from people going through the same thing as you. I was afforded a rare (for me) opportunity to speak to some of the daycare mummies that have kids the same age as MM. It seems that I am not the only person experiencing the tantrums, defiance, door slamming and other generally 'not so nice' behavior that my usually adorable son has been displaying lately. I cannot even begin to tell you the relief that I am feeling right now.
I have just been given the gift of knowing that I am NOT the worlds worst mummy, I am NOT doing absolutely everything wrong and this difficult stage WILL pass. Hallelujah!
Happy Mother's Day Mummies.