Because of some recent readings, I’m changing my professional policy regarding love readings. I am an INTJ on the Myers-Briggs-Jung personality test, which if you know anything about, I like to make my own decisions and leave others to do the same. I also thrive on efficiency!
While I have always been a compassionate man, I have taken a ‘hand’s off’ approach to giving psychic readings, considering myself only a purveyor of information.
There is only one problem with this approach: it’s not very efficient!
The primary reason I have resisted doing the coaching thing, is because the effects are only temporary. Let me give in an example from the opposite end of the spectrum; the guy who wants to get the girl.
Chances are this guy is doing something wrong. If the girl is single and available and he’s not butt ugly, he is approaching the woman the wrong way. In modern American Culture, we tend to only raise two types of men: Jerks and Beta Males. The most attractive and dynamic, the Alpha Male, is completely discouraged and often punished in modern life; except for the wealth of women who find him irresistible.
Alphas, in modern day society, male or female, are by far the most misunderstood of any personality type. They are often mistaken for both the Jerk and the Beta Male, when in reality they are a balance between the two, being tough and tender, aggressive and reflective, gentle and resilient.
The Jerks aren’t going to call me because they don’t really give a damn. Woman are expendable commodities to be used and they certainly don’t want my advice. They are in full blown competition with women on the social and romantic level. Their goal is to get the better of you, before you get the better of them!
The Beta Male will call me because he can’t figure out why the girl of his dreams will not reciprocate. He has no clue that his lackluster, aimless, weak approaches do nothing but turn women off. Believe me, even as a man, they can leave my skin crawling with a limp handshake that feels like a dead fish!
My point here is that it’s nearly impossible for me to turn a Beta Male into an Alpha Male quickly. His whole process of thinking has to change where he is not so obsessed with every little emotion that his woman experiences, but he is capable of taking charge, leading the way, making decisions quickly and can be prepared with a plan.
He also might need to lose some weight, gain some muscle, and generally eat healthier.
Helping you turn into an Alpha Female might take some time too. But it’s going to require a different approach then I’ve used before in the past. Unlike the “hand’s off” approach I’ve used in the past, I am doing to have to tell you directly what to do, with no ambiguity or room for interpretation.
So, rather than waste time giving the information and letting you figure out your course of action, I’m going to tell you, step by step, what to do, what to say and how to act. I’ve seen too many years of heartbreak and frustration for ladies who just want to know how to get their guy to open up and start talking to them again. I know you just want your man reengaged in the relationship.
The thing is, most of the time, unless you’re dealing with a jerk or some on unavailable, it can be done. And it’s simple! We men are wired so simply. It’s literally almost push button commands. Once you take my advice, and see how effective it is, we can go from there to improve communication and understanding between you and your guy.
Let’s get things in your love life moving again, quickly and efficiently and leave the heartache behind!
