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Internet Douchebag Apologizes. Hell Freezes Over.

Posted on the 27 September 2012 by Guerrillamom @mariaguido
So, has everyone heard of Reddit?  It's a universe unto itself.  It is basically a site where people share links to photos, news, blogs - basically anything and everything you can imagine.  There is a HUGE audience on Reddit.  I am a regular reader. 
As we all know, the Internet is vast and full of douchebags - and Reddit is no different.  Some may even argue that there is a higher douchebag to normal person ratio on this site.  Probably has something to do with age of the users, anonymity, and many, many other factors that I won't try to figure out right now.
Well, one of those douchebags posted a photo yesterday with a caption that read, i'm not sure what to conclude from this.
Here is the picture.
Internet Douchebag Apologizes.  Hell Freezes Over.
I'm pretty sure the purpose of posting it was to get some cheap laughs and an endless thread of Internet put downs.  It received A LOT of comments.  This was one of them:
Hey, guys. This is Balpreet Kaur, the girl from the picture. I actually didn't know about this until one of my friends told on facebook. If the OP wanted a picture, they could have just asked and I could have smiled :) However, I'm not embarrased or even humiliated by the attention [negative and positve] that this picture is getting because, it's who I am. Yes, I'm a baptized Sikh woman with facial hair. Yes, I realize that my gender is often confused and I look different than most women. However, baptized Sikhs believe in the sacredness of this body - it is a gift that has been given to us by the Divine Being [which is genderless, actually] and, must keep it intact as a submission to the divine will. Just as a child doesn't reject the gift of his/her parents, Sikhs do not reject the body that has been given to us. By crying 'mine, mine' and changing this body-tool, we are essentially living in ego and creating a seperateness between ourselves and the divinity within us. By transcending societal views of beauty, I believe that I can focus more on my actions. My attitude and thoughts and actions have more value in them than my body because I recognize that this body is just going to become ash in the end, so why fuss about it? When I die, no one is going to remember what I looked like, heck, my kids will forget my voice, and slowly, all physical memory will fade away. However, my impact and legacy will remain: and, by not focusing on the physical beauty, I have time to cultivate those inner virtues and hopefully, focus my life on creating change and progress for this world in any way I can. So, to me, my face isn't important but the smile and the happiness that lie behind the face are. :-) So, if anyone sees me at OSU, please come up and say hello. I appreciate all of the comments here, both positive and less positive because I've gotten a better understanding of myself and others from this. Also, the yoga pants are quite comfortable and the Better Together tshirt is actually from Interfaith Youth Core, an organization that focuses on storytelling and engagement between different faiths. :) I hope this explains everything a bit more, and I apologize for causing such confusion and uttering anything that hurt anyone.
Okay, so woman who is being ridiculed publicly on a very high traffic Internet site reads and responds with total grace, acceptance and forgiveness.  I may have actually been clapping and sort of crying when I read that, but I was even more touched by this next comment, by the original poster of the photo:
I know that this post ISN'T a funny post but I felt the need to apologize to the Sikhs, Balpreet, and anyone else I offended when I posted that picture. Put simply it was stupid. Making fun of people is funny to some but incredibly degrading to the people you're making fun of. It was an incredibly rude, judgmental, and ignorant thing to post.
/r/Funny wasn't the proper place to post this. Maybe /r/racism or /r/douchebagsofreddit or /r/intolerance would have been more appropriate. Reddit shouldn't be about putting people down, but a group of people sending cool, interesting, or funny things. Reddit's been in the news alot lately about a lot of cool things we've done, like a freaking AMA by the president. I'm sorry for being the part of reddit that is intolerant and douchebaggy. This isn't 4chan, or 9gag, or some other stupid website where people post things like I did. It's fucking reddit. Where some pretty amazing stuff has happened.
I've read more about the Sikh faith and it was actually really interesting. It makes a whole lot of sense to work on having a legacy and not worrying about what you look like. I made that post for stupid internet points and I was ignorant.
So reddit I'm sorry for being an asshole and for giving you negative publicity.
Balpreet, I'm sorry for being a closed minded individual. You are a much better person than I am
Sikhs, I'm sorry for insulting your culture and way of life.
Balpreet's faith in what she believes is astounding.

Balpreet is amazing for her resolve, her amazing view of what is important in this world, and her dedication to the practice of her faith.  But the original poster is amazing, too - because he grew up right in front of our very eyes.  I was touched by this.
This whole situation reminded me that it is never to late to correct something you've done.  Well, that and Western ideas of beauty are complete bullshit.  But all in all it was a good Internet day.  I think we all needed one.

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