The first time I dined solo was in Savannah, Georgia. I'd ignored my hunger for two hours to go to a restaurant I later discovered wasn't open that day. So I took myself out for a multi-course meal with wine pairings; similar to the one I enjoyed at a table for one in Iceland actually. And since it's become one of my favorite independent habits, I thought I'd share tips on how to actually enjoy eating out alone.
Believe you have a good reason. I agree, the best meals are shared (hello, Thanksgiving...) but I also know that I sometimes get hungry when I'm out and about by myself and there aren't always friends or family to meet me at all those restaurants I want to try. There's no need for either of us to be hungry nor deprived! Don't get caught up in feeling pathetic to ask for a table for one; be proud of your independence and get excited for the meal to come. With that said, there's also no pressure to jump head first into solo-dining with a late dinner at a romantic restaurant. I've found lunch is a much more "forgiving" time.
Prepare for a positive experience. Although I encourage bringing reading material to keep you company, I'd also advise to choose wisely. I have quite a lot of assigned reading but will choose take one or two articles as opposed to any of my textbooks. I always put it away when my food comes however. Take advantage of this undisturbed opportunity to really taste your food. People watch, too--whether that means you opt to sit by the window or have a cool view of the kitchen.
Relish in the perks. (1) Prix-fixe menus are popular at lunchtime, especially here in Paris. I love being able to go to a fancy-ish restaurant like Le Petit Niçois for an appetizer and entrée at a reasonable price. (2) You do realize you can go anywhere for anything when you're taking yourself out to eat, right? Just last week I was thinking about how much I miss my New York pizza dates. So, I walked to the tiny Italian restaurant/pizzeria around the corner. I couldn't have been happier to have such a delicious pie all to myself at Le Den. (3) Speaking of not sharing, it's your only option when dining solo. And if you're having, say, a fudgey slice of American-style brownie pie for dessert, such perks are very welcome. Promise :).
