Books Magazine

Fire Yourself!

By Fiafox @SofiaEssen
Fire Yourself!I recently coached a group of Entrepreneurs and Business Owners at one of my “Retreat in Crete” events. The group was a mix of men and women from various industries and countries.   

One evening, we headed to the beach, sat around a campfire, and began sharing our stories. Several people expressed their love for their business but there were also those who were completely exhausted by all the pressure of it. Some even said they had lost their passion because their business managed them rather than the other way around. They had too much to do on a daily basis and almost nonexistent personal lives.“You should fire yourself,” I said. They looked at me with wide eyes and raised eyebrows, clearly wondering if I was serious. “Yes,” I continued, “you should fire yourself! Release yourself from the tasks you don’t like and the ones you’re not good at anyway. You are wasting your time trying to do everything yourself. Start delegating and focus on your areas of strength and expertise. Otherwise you will never be able to grow your business to the level you want.”My “Fire Yourself” statement sparked a lively discussion. A handful of good ideas popped up but also plenty of excuses. Some people found it hard to let go, either due to lack of trust in their staff or because they wanted to be in control of every little detail of their business. However, as the evening and discussion progressed, many realized they should fine-tune their role and work focus in order to build their company. Once they learned that others had similar issues, it was somehow easier to get going and make some changes.My point is that you do yourself and your business a disservice by not focusing on what you are good at. Go back to your business vision and establish how you can maximize your strengths. Then remember to delegate - ask for help or hire temporary staff for tasks they perform better than you. Don’t let your Ego or pride stop you from sharing the workload. And, by the way, fire the perfectionist in you and your urge to control everything. It can’t be done. You’ll only exhaust yourself trying.You can apply the “Fire Yourself” concept in your personal life as well. What “bad” habits or negative, destructive people could you fire yourself from? Perhaps you should fire your multitasking personality! Effective multitasking is a myth. Multitasking seldom creates the results you are looking for – results of high quality.Learn to say NO. Fire your “yes” when it’s against your values. When you say no to someone else who presents you with a proposition you’re not comfortable with, you say yes to yourself.Whether it’s your professional or personal life, where can or should you “fire yourself”? Once you explore this and make some changes, you will not only be more productive but you will also find more joy and fulfillment in life. Why? Because you’ll be doing what you are good at, which will create better results than you hoped for, and you’ll enjoy the process.So, go ahead, fire yourself! You will be amazed by how much more energy you will have. And with the right focus, success will follow.  


You Might Also Like :

Back to Featured Articles on Logo Paperblog

These articles might interest you :

  • Big Food Giants Manipulate Public Health Policy in China

    Food Giants Manipulate Public Health Policy China

    Coca-Cola is at it again. As soda sales decline in the United States and Europe, beverage companies look to emerging economies like China for growth. And, it... Read more

    The 15 January 2019 by   Dietdoctor
    DIET & WEIGHT, HEALTH, HEALTHY LIVING, MEDICINE
  • Jewellery for a Precious You

    Jewellery Precious

    Jewellery is always close to a woman’s heart. It completes her look and boost confidence. Considering the changing trends in jewellery fashion, it becomes... Read more

    The 15 January 2019 by   Dr.jenifer Sayyed
    LIFESTYLE
  • Rajshri Productions’ Next Is A Film On Friendship | Hum Chaar | Trailer

    Abhishek Dixit’s debut feature film Hum Chaar is a Bollywood film made under the banner of Rajshri’s film. Hum Chaar is written and directed by Abhishek Dixit. Read more

    The 15 January 2019 by   Themoviean
    ENTERTAINMENT, MOVIES
  • Saint Paul the First Hermit

    Saint Paul First Hermit

    Today is the feast day of Saint Paul the hermit. This is a sweet and delicate Oatmeal Bread topped with rolled oats and naturally sweetened with agave. Saint... Read more

    The 15 January 2019 by   Veronica46
    FOOD & DRINK, RECIPES
  • Irupathiyonnaam Noottaandu | Teaser | Pranav Mohanlal | Arun Gopy

    Arun Gopy’s Irupathiyonnaam Noottaandu is an upcoming Malayalam action-drama feature film starring Pranav Mohanlal and Zaya David in the lead roles. Read more

    The 15 January 2019 by   Themoviean
    ENTERTAINMENT, MOVIES
  • A Year Of Body Positivity

    Year Body Positivity

    Last January, as I sat there on New Years eve all set to make the same old resolutions I've made year after year for as long as I can remember, I realised how... Read more

    The 15 January 2019 by   Sparklesandstretchmarks
    DIARIES, SELF EXPRESSION
  • Garden Bloggers Bloom Day – Jan 2019

    Garden Bloggers Bloom 2019

    Euphorbia rigidaWhen I went out to take the photos for this blog post I was surprised at how much was in flower dotted around the garden. Read more

    The 15 January 2019 by   Patientgardener
    GARDENING, HOME