Deal Breaker

I started an article in Psychology Today about research into what makes a deal breaker in relationships. It was a bit technical but still very well written. And then I happened upon a site where people were commentating on what they really didn’t like in potential partners. I was hooked. The first one below is what kicked it off for me:"Most common dealbreakers include abuse, rude to servers and others, drug use, adultery, etc. Ignoring the obvious dealbreakers, what are some unusual dealbreakers you have? For me, it was a hatred for theme parks. I couldn't have fun with someone like that."

"People who think reading is 'boring'.""A hatred for fandom/dressing up. I love going all out for Halloween or theme parties etc. I couldn't be with someone who didn't want to go all out too.""Camping. I hate it, I never want to do it again. Couldn't date someone who was into that sort of thing.""Can’t cook? If you can’t cook, I can’t be with you. I’m not going to be the only one feeding us. If you can’t cook and expect me to feed you all the time it literally won’t work out.""Not liking fun facts. I know who I am at this point and if you don't enjoy random tidbits of useless knowledge neither of us are gonna have a good time.""I would veto someone for not knowing how to use apostrophes correctly."
"Influencers/lifestyle bloggers are a big no for me. Staging everything in life for likes is not how I want to live it.""Posting pictures of themselves 'meditating' on social media. If you are meditating you wouldn't be trying to convince everyone that you're meditating... it's just weird.""Don’t like people who chew with their mouth open or talk with a mouthful of food. Gross. I’m out if you do that.""Those weird folks who take selfies constantly.""Supporting Spurs - and I’m not joking,""I ended it with someone who once turned up in some bloody awful Paddington like checked trousers. I icked right there and then.""A nail biter makes me cringe.""Someone who’s too lazy to pronounce the TH sound - I live in Ireland."
"Sport, watching, playing, reading or talking about it. Any of it at anytime. And the gym.""Astrology; homeopathy; imperfect grammar or syntax in text messages. All instant deal breakers.""Anyone who wears what I think are horrible shoes - slip ons (double nope if they have tassels) pointy toed shoes, sandals (with or without socks) flip flops, crocs, sliders. Men should wear proper boots or decent trainers."

"I wouldn't date anyone with the same name as my ex. No thank you."I can’t stand when people put wrappers into cups of tea/coffee that they’ve finished. Total deal breaker.""Someone who didn’t like my dog sleeping at the end of the bed. He said it was her or him, it was an easy choice, I loved that dog."As for the poem. I couldn’t resist this:The author Daniel Defoe controversially wrote of the town mentioned in this poem in his 1704 book 'The Storm '. The town accused him of libel and refuted the allegations he made. Defoe wrote:
If I had any satire left to write,
Could I with suited spleen indite,
My verse should blast that fatal town,
And drown'd sailors' widows pull it down;
No footsteps of it should appear,
And ships no more cast anchor there.
The barbarous hated name of Deal shou'd die,
Or be a term of infamy;
And till that's done, the town will stand
A just reproach to all the land.
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