as it turns out ... being myself is not as easy as it used to be a decade back. in my head I believe that I am strong willed and cannot be pushed around ... but if I am truly being honest with myself (and you) then I have to accept that I have become quite a softball over the years. I often don't say-it-like-it-is in the real life. not because I am scared of anyone, but because of my pursuit for no-drama in life. I thought that the less I lock horns with people the more my chances of getting through life unscarred!
I thought silence is golden. which it is. at most times. but if you stay quiet ... or do not take a stand on anything for a long time then you practically become invisible in your own life. And who wants that?
when you put your own happiness before others people start having problems with you. so I have to find a balance. I have to learn the right 'tone' of addressing my concerns and expressing my opinions without creating drama for myself. which is hard.
I got fever and cold taking these shots! You are welcome.The biggest struggle of "being myself" is to be okay with that uncomfortable feeling that you might be pissing someone off! #weekendwisdom
— Tanvi Rastogi (@Tanviidotcom) January 11, 2015
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