Guys, it's time we talked: if you haven't considered an adult sex toy, you're depriving yourself of much-deserved pleasure. Whether you're a single guy who's in a transitionary period between partners or you've committed yourself to a "certain someone" for decades, every man needs "time alone."
The need for personal attention could come while on a business trip, when your beloved is away for a few days or when your favorite sports team is down by a few points. The point is this: while female sexual desires are no longer considered "taboo," males are missing out on the fun. If we've thoroughly convinced you to consider an adult product, here are ten tips to keep in mind when you purchase your first sex toy.
1. Price
Let's be honest - sex toys, in some instances, are expensive! While there's no need to rush out and purchase a thousand-dollar device dedicated strictly to your pleasure, you get what you pay for. With this in mind, allocating a part of your budget for a sex toy is essential.
With less than $100, you can buy a toy that mimics the female form with impressive accuracy. Go a bit further, and you can find toys that are anatomically correct to a life-size human, replicating the curves, lines, and figure of a full-fledged woman.
2. Size
Some men prefer to keep their toys discreet and unassuming, and that's OK! With your privacy being a factor, choosing a toy with small dimensions is paramount. More importantly, the smaller the device, the easier it is to clean - a topic we'll discuss in-depth later.
Moreover, a small product allows you to store and travel with your companion, never fearing that your toy will stick out among "regular" items. For the man whose goal is discretionary pleasure and relief, size is a domain to keep in mind while shopping.
3. Texture Preference
The beauty of male sex toys is the customizable textures and interior design that each device uses. Let's cut to the chase: no two men are the same. One man's "oh, I don't like that" is another man's, "wow, that's perfect!"
Unlike biological females, male toys introduce bumps, ridges, grooves and snug dimensions that rival a female's anatomy, and then some. If you're a man who desires a unique experience unlike anything you've ever had, consider customizing your toy to accommodate your needs.
4. Accessories
Ah, the beauty of enhancing your experience! With sex toys comes an interesting point of conversation - accessories. Whether you're a traditional man who prefers his toys straight out the box or the type of sexual connoisseur who loves to mix and match components, accessories need to be on your mind. If you're stuck thinking about what accessories will enhance your alone time, here's what to consider:
- Toy warmers
- Mounts
- Hands-free rigs
- Battery-powered simulators
- Vibration settings
- Self-pleasuring mechanisms
- Vacuum seals and suctions
If these accessories don't blow your mind, we don't know what will! Mix and match these additional parts to make your experience worthwhile.
5. Discreet Shipping
No one wants to be "that guy" who gets a sex toy in the mail, and we don't blame you! For this reason, we encourage you to use reputable companies and online stores that keep their customers' purchases private and discretionary.
6. Storage
Sex toys, like collector's items and rare gifts, are products that need to be cared for and stored in a safe location. While your mileage may vary, using a lockbox, storage bin, safe case is your best bet. Not only will a storage device keep your product tucked away securely, but it will also keep prying eyes from snooping around and finding your toys.
7. Efficient Care
In addition to a proper storage container, male toys need to be cared for and kept clean. If you follow any step in this list, this is the one to keep in mind at all times. If your toy isn't properly cleaned and sanitized after each use, harmful bacteria, mold, and buildup occur in no time. And if you think these are trivial problems, think again: mold and other harmful particles can enter the penis, making you sick and feeling awful.
8. Lubricants
Lubricants are a topic that always seems to slip (no pun intended) a first-time buyer's mind when heading to the store for a sex toy. Lubricant choice not only makes your experience more lifelike, but also keeps your toy's interior safe and intact for years to come.
As a rule of thumb, use lubricants that use water as their main ingredient. The reason for this is that silicone and flesh-like materials perform well with water-based products, but oil-based solutions cause the inner lining to deteriorate and fall apart.
9. Lifespan
As we wrap up, we want you to remain cognizant of your toy's lifespan. Regardless of whether you're taking care of your toy and cleaning it after each use, the toy's structure is doomed from day one. Over time, the delicate linings and interior portions of your toy will wear down and crumble. A year of usage is typical for most toys, and anything beyond this point is asking for trouble, or worse, health issues. Consider replacing your device after daily use for a year.
10. Sexual Exploration
Lastly, we encourage you to explore the growing niche of male adult toys. Whether you're someone who longs for love or loves the mobility and freedom of being single, adult toys can help you in times of need. More importantly, sexual relief lowers stress, promotes a healthy prostate, and gives you clarity and peace of mind in a chaotic world. Good luck out there, and don't feel ashamed or embarrassed for investing in your pleasure
