Meeting Women at Clubs Versus Bars

A general rule for the dance floor is... escalation happens FASTER but means LESS. Meaning, in less than 30 seconds she is already grabbing your package, but a minute later she says she will be "right back" and then spends the rest of the night hiding from you. This can be confusing the first time something like this  happens to you. 
In contrast, when talking at a quieter bar or lounge the sexual connection may take more time to develop, but it usually lasts longer and has more meaning. In my opinion that is the trade off of meeting women in clubs versus bars.