Movie: Blue Valentine

There are lots of movies about the fast start and depressing downfall of a relationship.
Bottom line. A woman’s agenda is in direct conflict with the special ingredients it takes to keep long term attraction alive. For example, seeing each other less would keep that all important sexual chemistry alive longer, but it’s a bad strategy for trying to get you locked down and committed. The funny part is, intuitively, women know this and don’t seem to care. Loss of attraction is just the cost of doing business. And you can’t logically explain this to her before it happens, she is not going to listen. It will still be your fault when it happens though. It’s always a Blue Valentine for guys who take attraction for granted.