It's happened to all of us at one point or another. That point where that one person you couldn't live with out, doesn't seem all that hard to live without anymore. When you're dating someone and you start to lose interest, 99 times out of 100, that feeling only grows. It is most definitely an exception to the rule when you make a recovery from starting to lose interest in your significant other, or a person you are just casually dating. Here are 8 signs that you or your significant other has started to lose interest.
1. You're not affectionate towards them. In private, or public...it is not your natural instinct to put your arm around them, kiss them on the cheek, or hold their hand. You don't hug them or kiss them when they get home from work, or after getting home from a vacation, and you are perfectly content sleeping on the opposite side of the bed for the majority of the night.
2. Your mood is different when you are around friends and family than when you are with them.
3. You make excuses as to why you can't hang out with them, or why they can't come with you to certain events.
4. You've stopped fighting. Although this may seem like a good thing, it's actually not. When the passion is gone, you will stop fighting. While fighting everyday is a huge red flag, a good fight here and there shows you both still care about the little things in your relationship.
5. They're iPhone password is harder to crack than The Da Vinci Code. There is a very fine line between the fact that you should never be snooping through your significant others phone, and if it isn't even an option to see their phone. They won't let you use their phone to make a phone call or text.
6. Conversations about the future are avoided. One of you is ready to take that next step in the relationship- getting a key to their place, meeting their family, going on a vacation together, moving in, getting engaged, etc. however the conversation is somehow always put off.
7. They don't really accommodate much for you. If you can fit into their plans, their friends, and their social life...then great. Doing something for you is considered a huge inconvenience and you feel as though they are doing you a favor.
8. You still love them a little bit, and they've lowered their standards to accept the minimal love you are giving them. At this point, chances are you both have "lost that loving feeling." One person may be trying to overcompensate for the other's lack of enthusiasm toward the relationship, however once this happens, the end is ultimately near for both parties.
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