Where do I go and find Chinese girls? This question often comes from so called China rookies, or newcomer-expats in China. Actually, the answer is quite simple. It is the same as in your country, with only one difference.
Whether you come from USA, Europe or Democratic Republic of Congo, it is the same as in your country. You can find them anywhere. Streets, bars, shopping-malls, your workplace or even at your home, if you have a female Chinese roomie of course.
Difference? You are in China, and keep in mind this country has yet to open to the world, so being a foreigner here has its perks. First of all you are unusual. Now, you are the exotic and misterious one coming from a country far, far away. So, most of the time you will be in the spotlight, even when you are just on your way to buy yourself a breakfast.
Meeting Chinese Women in bars
We will start with a no-brainer -bars. Just as in, almost, every other country there are different types of bars. If you go to a student bar, there are pretty good chances you will end up empty handed. Student bars is place for packs. Everybody there comes with their crew, and if you are not a part of student life in that part of town, you might as well finish that beer and move on.
Safer bet is to go to one of the exclusive bars in town. Even, Chinese biggest urban dumps have a bar of that sort. So, even if you are stuck for work in some small town, you will be able to find it. Then again, if you are stuck in a Chinese village, you will not have to go to the bar. You will see what we mean.
Anyway, exclusive bars is where more mature, independent Chinese women gather, and they come there exactly for the same reason as you: to find some company. The only downside is that these places are pretty expensive. So prepare yourself for Western prices, if you want to buy a drink for the ladies.
Meeting Chinese Women in the Streets
Yep. It is cheap and possibilites are almost limitless, but there are lot of downsides to it. Most of Chinese girls, like Chinese in general, are pretty shy when it comes to operating in public. That is why, among other things, Chinese do not like to eat or drink outside.
So, if a woman approaches you in the street, she is either a “pro” or a girl who works for a nearby bar. Also, do not approach women on the street, if you have not been invited. Wait until she looks at you, smiles or giggles. That is the time when you should engage.
Meeting Chinese Women in Night Clubs
Clubs in China are a good place to get a one-night stand. Also, if you are going to fancy clubs, before you engage with some girl, take a good look at whom she is with. You do not want to mess with local officials’ or local ‘’businessmen’s’’ girls. Chinese guys might not look much, but they are pretty fast and full of surprises when it comes to fights, and they usually have a help.
If you are going to popular clubs, just go with the flow. But here is the thing: in clubs there is more chance you will end up with a foreign girl than a Chinese one.
Meeting Chinese Women in the Office
If you are the only foreigner in the company, you will get a green light by many girls in your offices. Only problem is that in China, most of the workmates will not approve of your relationship, and bosses will not like it too, especially if you are working for a state company. So what? That is none of their business!, you might say. Well, you will not have trouble, but she will. She might get frowned upon, passed on that promotion she has been waiting for, or as they say it here, be ‘’criticised’’ for her behaviour, we would say disciplined.
Of course, if you two get married, things will get easier. But until you do, get ready for a bunch of office-work related problems. So, be discrete about it. After all it is none of their business. Right?
Meeting Chinese Girls at Language Schools
Here is another no-brainer. You can enroll in one of the classes or look for a tutor. If you enroll in the class then you will be after teachers, which are 99% female. Downside is there are more foreign students than teachers. But taking a tutor gives you an opportunity to audition and it is cheaper than classes.
Flirting With Girls in Tea Ceremony Classes
Now here is an unusual one. China is without a doubt, a country with rich and long cultural tradition and you have come a long way to be here for whatever reason. So, why not kill two birds with one stone – learn something and find the woman of your dreams.
For example, you might take a tea ceremony class. You will be the only foreginer there, and all of the students will be almost all female. So, you will be in the spotlight all the time. If you are worried about language barrier, don’t! It will only make you more charming. The goofy, clumsy foreigner and his big nose trying to make one simple sentence is ultra-cute in every Chinese woman’s eyes. After all, that is how they see us in general.
Meeting Chinese Girls at English Schools
If you are not keen on exploring new cultures through books, you might wanna spread your own culture. Why not teach English? These kind of jobs are all in the evening, and if you are coming from English speaking countries, especially US and Britain, you will get a job in no time with a nice pocket money and a professor title, which always works with Chinese girls.
