This is deep... and true... and hard... and necessary:
“The Divine Command was not like thy neighbor but love thy neighbor, because it is hard to like certain kinds of people, such as those who step on our toes or make funny noises when they drink soup. When there is no spontaneous love, love begins only as a duty. But as we learn to write by writing, to cook by cooking, to be courteous by practicing kindliness, so we learn to love by loving. The I ought after a while passes to I love.”
~Archbishop Fulton Sheen (The Power of Love)
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