Nathan Feiles, Lmsw

LATEST ARTICLES ( 121 )

• The Value of Therapy: Opening the Past…to Create Change and Happiness in the...

  

  It can be difficult to appreciate who we are. There’s so much each of us has to offer to each other, and so much to offer the world. Read more

  Posted on 01 February 2014 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Relationship Breakups: The Commitment to Separation

  

  How many times have you ended a relationship and continued to be at least somewhat involved with your ex? Read more

  Posted on 20 January 2014 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• 8 Tricks to Sustaining Sex in Your Relationship

  

  Sex can be difficult to sustain in relationships. While there are some who are able to do it, there are generally factors that can counter sexual excitement in... Read more

  Posted on 05 January 2014 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• 8 Ways to Be a Better Partner in 2014

  

  As the new year approaches, people often take the opportunity to re-evaluate who they are and consider the changes they’d like to make in their lives. Read more

  Posted on 29 December 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Strengthen Your Relationships This Holiday…

  

  This year on Christmas day and New Year’s day, try turning off your phones, tablets, and computers for the day. Be in the present with those closest to you and... Read more

  Posted on 24 December 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• How to Change a Struggling Relationship Into a Healthy Relationship

  This is the “part 2″ to the article “10 Signs You May Be in an Unhealthy Relationship“.It was brought to my attention that in the first article I made... Read more

  Posted on 09 December 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• 10 Signs You May Be in an Unhealthy Relationship

  

  Technically, a relationship needs to only be defined by the people who are in the relationship. What is a “good (or healthy) relationship” for two people may... Read more

  Posted on 04 December 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Surviving the Great Holiday Depression

  

  As we well know, while the holidays can be a source of joy for many people, the holidays are also a source of sadness for many others. Read more

  Posted on 24 November 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Self-Relationship: 10 Ways to Create a Happy Moment

  

  No, this isn’t meant to be a cure for depression, but we all deserve a good moment. A happy moment can both break a string of negative moods, and it can also... Read more

  Posted on 17 November 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Relationships and Social Anxiety: Who Are We Really Hiding From?

  

  People often prefer to believe that it’s possible to hide pieces of ourselves that we don’t want people to see, often exaggerating certain qualities in order... Read more

  Posted on 10 November 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Relationship Killer: “You Should Have Known What I Want…”

  

  Mind-reading. It’s one of the easiest ways to cause ruptures in friendships or in relationships. It’s not the people who try to read minds that cause the... Read more

  Posted on 27 October 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Depression: Unrealistic Expectations for Happiness?

  

  In working with people who struggle with depression, there has been a noticeable pattern of how people tend to approach the idea of happiness. Read more

  Posted on 21 October 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Personality Disorders: Life in a Bubble

  

  We could call it “Life in a Bubble”, or just as appropriately, “Life Inside-Out.” Either way, being in a relationship with someone who deals with a personality... Read more

  Posted on 13 October 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Why Relationships Break Up

  

  There are many perspectives on why relationships don’t always last, and more than one theory has validity to it. I’m going to present a theory I call the “broke... Read more

  Posted on 06 October 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Life Is a Fluid, Not a Solid

  

  What does that even mean, anyway…life is a fluid? (Some may prefer to say “liquid”, but I’m sticking with “fluid”).People often perceive life as a series of... Read more

  Posted on 29 September 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Hiding Behind Technology to Be Mean

  

  Have you ever heard anyone use the phrase “hiding behind your computer?” It’s something that’s become increasingly common in the world of technology. Read more

  Posted on 22 September 2013 LIFE COACH, LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Ending Arguments

  

  Relationships all have their bumpy moments. Some happen more than others, but relationships that last are able to move forward from these moments without gettin... Read more

  Posted on 15 September 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Grudges: Who Really Suffers?

  

  How many times have you been on the receiving end of a grudge? It’s not an easy place to be. Generally when someone has a grudge against you, anger, blame,... Read more

  Posted on 08 September 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• The Quickest Way to Destroy Your Relationships

  

  I’m sure we’ve all encountered people who think the way they live their life is the “right” way. According to these people, everyone who lives life according... Read more

  Posted on 18 August 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS

• Assumptions Are Toxic to Relationships

  

  Assumptions have the ability to destroy relationships, and indeed they do just that. Assumptions can be direct, or indirect. A direct assumption is basically a... Read more

  Posted on 21 July 2013 LOVE & SEX, RELATIONSHIPS