Clarissayjada
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YOU'RE JUST A DUMBASS
http://yourejustadumbass.com/
I’m a researcher, scientist and clinician with 17 years of experience in mental health, behavioral science, and public health. I created this blog, originally, as a conversation to myself about my experiences with suboptimal relationships. Sometimes it is what I have said to myself; other times it is what I have said about someone else. Regardless of what perspective it was from, it is always from a place of evolution and empowerment.
LATEST ARTICLES ( 62 )
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It’s Not You, It’s Me. It is You. The 3 D’s to Help You Get Closer to That...
Relationships can be challenging because of the things that are unresolved within us. We learn more about ourselves while we are in relationships through... Read more
Posted on 04 March 2013 LOVE & SEX -
Watch the Premiere of Play Ideal Date! An Official Hangout on Air During Social...
I have recently had the honor of being an Official Hangout on Air during Social Media Week. A special thanks to Google, Google+ Social Media Week, Concentric... Read more
Posted on 22 February 2013 LOVE & SEX -
Want to Spice up Valentine’s Day?
It’s Valentine’s Day and whether we are in a relationship or not, this holiday is designed to remind us about love. Love is not just an emotion, it’s an ability... Read more
Posted on 14 February 2013 LOVE & SEX -
Want to Find a Date in 1 Hour? Play the Ideal Date Dating Game!
Many of you know from my last post,The best online dating screener: google+ hangouts, I am a big fan of the google+ hangouts. Since I have been actively using... Read more
Posted on 06 February 2013 LOVE & SEX -
Top 10 Things to Tell the Woman in Your Life
Men, do you want Valentine’s Day to come early, tell the woman in your life any of these phrases I love you! You cooked, I’ll clean. I picked up something at... Read more
Posted on 30 January 2013 LOVE & SEX -
The Best Online Dating Screener: Google+ Hangouts!
According to online dating statistics, 1 out of 3 people are now using online dating as a method of finding their mate. Some may say that this is the new... Read more
Posted on 17 January 2013 LOVE & SEX -
Start off Your New Year with a Bang!
As I reflect on the year, I realize more and more that life isn’t always about getting what you deserve. It’s about us all being on different trajectories. Read more
Posted on 31 December 2012 LOVE & SEX -
Tis the Season
It’s the time of year where everyone and their momma is having holiday parties. There are some parties that you feel you should go to, that you have to go to,... Read more
Posted on 21 December 2012 LOVE & SEX -
The Gift That Keeps on Giving
For many, the holidays are times to celebrate family, life, love, and personal goals. However, when you’re single it can be a time of anxiety. Read more
Posted on 12 December 2012 LOVE & SEX -
Top 10 Things to Help You Heal from a Failed Relationship
First, I’d like to thank all of my followers and readers. I am extremely grateful for your support. Many of you I have cried, laughed, cheered, and ranted with. Read more
Posted on 07 December 2012 LOVE & SEX -
It IS All About Ego!
I think that men are more strategic than women when it comes to dating. Here’s why: they have spent their dating lives figuring out what methods work and how... Read more
Posted on 06 December 2012 LOVE & SEX -
Top 10 Things Women Should Tell Themselves
Contrary to what we are told and tell ourselves as women, we are really amazing. Think about all the things you manage in a day. Isn’t it really impressive?... Read more
Posted on 26 November 2012 LOVE & SEX -
Men, Keep It 100: How to Stop Getting Rejected Online.
These tips are designed to help men deal with not getting contacted back from women or feeling outright rejection. 1. If your interested in hook ups, don’t... Read more
Posted on 19 November 2012 LOVE & SEX -
How the Sexes Handle Hurt
In our quest for happiness and ultimate life satisfaction, we encounter struggles that we try to figure out. Clark Kent I decided to collaborate to answer som... Read more
Posted on 14 November 2012 LOVE & SEX -
Top 10 Things to Stop Doing Right Now
1. Don’t think that people will change. 2. Don’t settle. In every person you encounter you gain something. Focus on what you gained, instead of what you were... Read more
Posted on 12 November 2012 LOVE & SEX -
Wow! Nominated for the One Lovely Blog Award!
I have had the honor of being nominated for the One Lovely Blog Award from one of my favorite bloggers, needforspeed! She chronicles her life and dating... Read more
Posted on 08 November 2012 LOVE & SEX -
Death of My Former Self
This is extremely difficult to write, but I think my experience may help others. This post is dedicated to my former self and to those that can relate to what... Read more
Posted on 31 October 2012 LOVE & SEX -
Let’s Reframe Hurt
Inspired by Mastin Kipp’s The Daily Love. Love is one of the areas that can cause the most hurt. Whether we are looking for it, dating it, or committed to it;... Read more
Posted on 22 October 2012 LOVE & SEX -
Self-deception at Its Best
Best What the H lines I have heard so far: 1. “Dating while you’re married isn’t cheating”. Explaining some of the difficulties of a marriage after years of... Read more
Posted on 13 October 2012 LOVE & SEX -
Sex for the Psyche! Book Review: Eufeeling! The Art of Inner Peace and Outer...
Since I am a novice to the Quantum Entrainment (QE) theory and technique and was interested in learning about a technique that would help me to reach a state... Read more
Posted on 08 October 2012 LOVE & SEX