Today I'm boarding a plane and going home. While the Canada Goose is turning her beak to the south, I'm turning mine to the north. I'm off to Canada!
Canada is where my story started. There's a warm and weird nostalgia that comes over me when I think about Canada and all things Canadian: Coffee Crisp chocolate bars, Shreddies cereal, Swedish fish, Tim Hortons coffee and donuts, Canadian Tire, London Drugs, Cheez Whiz, Nanaimo bars, Nuts and Bolts, Aero chocolate, homo milk, Beaver Tails, poutine, ordering French fries with a side of gravy, Kraft Dinner, the loonie and the twoonie, the Canadian flag, klicks.
I suppose my attachment to the Great White North is a little suspect. I've really only lived 15 of my 46 years there. But Canada served as a pivot place for my childhood. Although we left when I was 8 years old, Canada was where we always went back to. Canada housed my grandparents, most of our aunts and uncles, our cousins. Canada was the place of my parent's childhoods, their stories, their romance and marriage.
Later, when mom and dad were back from Pakistan, Lowell and I would marry in a tiny church in a small town on the vast Canadian prairies. We honeymooned in the Canadian Rockies between Banff and Lake Louise. Come to think of it, those months leading up to our wedding was really the last time I lived in Canada. We've been married 22 years ago. That's a very long time ago.
Although I self-identify as Canadian, and have a Canadian passport to prove it, I'm quite likely the most unCanadian Canadian you'll ever meet. My connections are weak at best, based largely on sentiment and maple syrup. I know very little about Canadian history or folklore. Canadian politics still perplex me on occasion. I'm hardly fluent in the Canadian vernacular. My vowels are now too relaxed, my consonants too indistinct, my syllables too lazy. When I talk no one suspects that I'm north of the 49 th parallel.
I know it makes no sense but I suppose this is the crux of the TCK tale. There's no accounting for how and when the heart feels momentarily at home. The math doesn't make sense. Only 1/3 of my life has been lived in the True North strong and free. On the other hand I've lived 22 years in Pakistan and India. Only nine years have been spent here among the sunflowers in Kansas.
And yet Canada still represents something to my soul that really defies logic. For reasons I can't explain there's a part of me that still sighs with relief when I enter her borders. I exhale and relax just a little bit more when I arrive. This time tomorrow morning I'll be sipping tea at my parent's dining room table. I'll take a deep breath and let it out slowly. I'll set down my foreignness for a bit. I'll be among my people and somehow that brings me a measure of consolation.
Our home and native land! True patriot love in all thy sons command. With glowing hearts we see thee rise, The True North strong and free! From far and wide, O Canada, we stand on guard for thee. God keep our land glorious and free! O Canada, we stand on guard for thee. O Canada, we stand on guard for thee. O Canada! Where pines and maples grow. Great prairies spread and lordly rivers flow. How dear to us thy broad domain, From East to Western sea. Thou land of hope for all who toil! Thou True North, strong and free! O Canada! Beneath thy shining skies May stalwart sons, and gentle maidens rise, To keep thee steadfast through the years From East to Western sea. Our own beloved native land! Our True North, strong and free! Ruler supreme, who hearest humble prayer, Hold our Dominion in thy loving care; Help us to find, O God, in thee A lasting, rich reward, As waiting for the better Day, We ever stand on guard.
