Some people focus on a so-called loss, but the way I see it, something is not actually a loss unless it matters to someone.What may appear as a loss could be a gain.I cannot speak for everyone, however, from my own personal experience, when we lose someone or if someone leaves our life, it does not or will not affect us unless we care.If someone we love dies or goes away, we will miss them or long to see them again.If someone we do not love, like, or care for dies or goes away, we do not feel anything.
We may even be glad they are gone and do not ever want to encounter them ever again.The situation and circumstances all depend on whether we care or not.I know if I do not care about something, it does not bother me at all.
