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How to Embrace Your Unique Relaxed Style & Overcome Fashion Insecurities!

By Imogenl @ImogenLamport
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Have you ever felt that your naturally relaxed, casual style lacks the polished edge of a more “put-together” look? I know exactly how it feels to want to elevate your casual style. One of my readers wrote to me and let me know that despite loving a natural, laid-back wardrobe, she sometimes struggles with the idea that she has no style. If you’ve experienced these insecurities, you’re not alone. Today, I want to share some tips on how to infuse your everyday looks with a bit of elevated flair—even if your go-to is jeans and a T-shirt.

The Paradox of Relaxed Style

There’s a curious paradox in casual dressing: while a laid-back look feels natural, it can sometimes lack the structure needed to truly elevate your style. Think of it like long hair – when it’s flowing freely, it can feel like you don’t have a defined hairstyle, but when opting for a shorter, more structured cut, everything just feels more styled. The same applies to casual clothing. A simple, unadorned outfit can sometimes feel bland rather than stylish.

Adding a Touch of Quirk to Elevate Your Casual Look

If you blend classic style with a quirky creative edge, consider how a few intentional details can instantly elevate your casual style. A statement accessory or unique detail can transform your look without overhauling your natural vibe.elevated relaxed casual jeans and a tee outfits


How to Embrace Your Unique Relaxed Style & Overcome Fashion Insecurities!
  • Jewellery & Scarves – A piece of quirky jewellery or a statement scarf can be just enough to signal that there’s intentional style behind your outfit.
  • Unique Details – Look for T-shirts or casual tops with interesting construction, subtle patterns, or unexpected details that elevate the everyday look.
  • Unexpected Footwear – Try incorporating shoes with quirky details—think dress sneakers with bold prints, playful embellishments, or even unconventional colour pairings. This not only elevates your casual look but also adds an unexpected twist that reflects your creative personality.  Wear a ballet flat, ankle boot or loafer rather than sneakers, still comfortable, less casual.
  • Add a Jacket – a comfortable jacket will always elevate any jeans outfit as the structure of the jacket, even if it’s comfortable, creates a more stylish look.

Wear a jacket with your jeans

These small accents can transform a basic jeans-and-T-shirt ensemble into something that truly reflects your personality.

The Importance of a Crisp Look

While comfort is key in a relaxed wardrobe, maintaining a crisp look is essential to elevate your casual style. When you lean into comfort, it can be all too easy for garments to become loose, worn, or even slightly sloppy. Here are a few quick tips:

  • Maintain Your Clothes – Ensure your clothes are in good condition. Regularly iron or steam your garments to keep them crisp.
  • Perfect Your Fit – Even the cosiest piece looks more stylish when it fits perfectly. A well-fitting garment enhances your natural lines and keeps your look intentional rather than haphazard.
  • Thoughtful Storage – Invest in quality hangers and organise your wardrobe properly. Proper storage helps maintain the shape and structure of your garments, reducing wrinkles and ensuring each piece always looks polished when you pull it out of your closet.

Inspiration from Street Style

Sometimes, a bit of inspiration can go a long way. I encourage you to explore street style—particularly the looks of celebrities or influencers who embody a relaxed, yet stylish aesthetic. Notice how they mix elements:

  • Shoes – A pair of dress sneakers with unique detailing can instantly upgrade your casual look.
  • Layering – While a full blazer might feel too heavy for summer, consider a lightweight jacket or a stylish vest to add structure without sacrificing comfort.
  • Classic with Relaxed: Choose a classic item, such as a button-up collared shirt, and wear it with your relaxed jeans or denim.
    A collared shirt adds a more polished look to your relaxed style
  • Subtle Statement Pieces—Even on a hot day, a patterned T-shirt or a distinctive cut can serve as that “third piece” that ties the outfit together.

This approach can help you identify the elements that resonate with you and inspire your next casual yet curated outfit.

Elevate Your Casual Style Every Day

Ultimately, elevating your natural, casual style is about balance. It’s about blending comfort with thoughtful details that reflect your unique personality—whether that’s a quirky creative twist or a timeless classic vibe. Remember, style isn’t just about following trends; it’s about making choices that empower you to feel confident every day.

If you’re ready to master your style and overcome your insecurities, consider exploring my 7 Steps to Style program. It’s designed to help you build a wardrobe where every piece works harmoniously, giving you the confidence to express your authentic self effortlessly.

Here’s to embracing your natural beauty and elevating your everyday look—one stylish detail at a time!

Further Reading

Should My Style Blend In With Others Or Be More Unique?

Why You Must Have a Style Recipe

Why Do You Feel the Need to Live Small?

How to embrace your unique relaxed style and overcome your fashion insecurities

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