When it comes to being a good friend, many of us believe
that we do the right things, but in many instances we actually end up falling short. While it is nice to
take our friends out for a nice dinner, going for a walk together or discussing
the latest TV shows and the latest Target
coupons, being a great friend is about more than the materialistic aspects of
life, so read on to learn more:
Don't Give Advice
Let's be honest here, no one likes a know it all. If your friend is not asking you for advice, then there is no need to offer it. People usually do not talk to their friends because they seek advice, they speak to them about their problems so that they can vent, unburden themselves. So, lend a sympathetic ear and keep some things to yourself, unless your advice is asked for directly.
Bring Everyone Together
Most of us have a group of friends from every aspect of our lives. We have our high school friends, our college friends, our work friends, or people we meet because of certain hobbies. Showcase a different side of yourself by bringing all of these different groups together! You just might end up being pleasantly surprised by just how much all of your different friends have in common with one another.
Be Happy For Your Friends
When our friends tell us about their latest success, our minds tend to drift into wondering what this means for us, on a personal level. This is a wrong viewpoint to take. If a friend achieves something great, leave your personal feelings out of the equation and take a moment to be genuinely happy for them! Your friends are not merely in need of someone to help them through their trials and tribulations, they want someone who will also have the ability to share their successes.
The Little Things Count
Grand, sweeping gestures are nice, but what really makes a difference to a friend is the little things that you do on a day to day basis. Remembering their children's birthdays, sending kind e-mails during a particularly troubled period, stopping by their place of work to take them out for a drink after a rough day, these are the things that allow friendships to be sustained over a long period of time.
Work Harder To See One Another
Think back to when you were a small child. You probably couldn't wait for birthday parties, sleepovers and get togethers with buddies. But adulthood has a way of grinding us down and making us forget about the simple joys of spending time with friends. Don't let this happen to you! Make a sincere effort to remain in touch with your friends and keep the bonds between you alive.
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