When you start dating in a routine manner a feeling of boredom creeps in. The study has shown that a large number relationships terminate just because of boredom. [Read: Tips to Make Your Dating More Interesting and Eventful]
Many couples start their relationship with dancing, singing and marry making in different ways. But after a short time they are seen sitting in front of the TV and watching stage shows and often answer each other telephone calls with lethargic attitude. Romance is then taken over by complacency apathy and responsibility and hence boredom creeps in, [Read: What All Should You Avoid During a Date] Here are useful tips to keep the interest alive in your dating so as to ward off any chances of separation.
Keep flirting with your partner. Flirting maintains freshness in the relationship and wards off any boredom. It fosters friendly ties and keeps the mutual interest alive. Flirting also amounts to flattering your partner who will feel elevated with this attitude.
Love plays important role in maintaining interest in dating. Love is not confined to sex only. It encompasses politeness, caring attitude, courtesy, sacrifice, mercy, tenderness and affection for the others. Your partner deserves the most of these attributes. A better understanding of your partner and appreciating the person off and on creates good impact.
Civility and courtesy is key to maintaining interest in relationship. Do not be harsh with your partner and always show courtesy. Deal politely even if you feel offended by any of the act or words. Never admonish your partner particularly in front of others. Criticism is the worst enemy of good relationship and always breeds resentment that can culminate in to break up.
Keep you disputes to a low tone. Do not make the disputes as issues of ego or power. Never go to bed along with the disputes in mind otherwise it will backfire and you will have strained relationship. Always think before you speak. Remember spoken words are irretrievable and you can only repent after uttering them. Put yourself in the shoes of other person and then imagine how would you feel if same words were spoken to you by your partner.
Relationship requires continuous reassurance. Never leave your partner without affection and appreciation even if you think it to be a useless exercise. Your partner wants physical dose of affection on daily basis. Give a long kiss to partner whenever you depart on meet after an interval. Appreciate your partner very frequently on anything done or contributed by him /her. This will raise the morale of the partner to higher levels and create pleasant feelings. Supplement your affection with small but frequent gifts. Intimacy strengthens the mutual bond so always display intimacy with your partner. Instead of watching TV, involve yourself in personal discussion with the partner. Never reject the intimacy overtures of your partner. [Read: Passionate Love is Emotional, Exciting and is Deeply Influenced by Time]
Over dependence on your partner should also be avoided. Never give a feeling that he or she is indispensable for you and that if the person leaves you or rejects you, there are many other options open before you. This attitude will keep the other party on toes and will keep your intact in marinating the relationship.
