Dean Rowland has responded to his ex-fiancé Harry Derbidge's allegations he assaulted him on an evening out after which left him stranded in central London with out a telephone or cash.
Taking to Instagram on Friday, Dean shared a prolonged submit which claimed the TOWIE star, 27, had bodily assaulted him 'a number of instances', was a 'compulsive liar', drank 'an excessive amount of' and pressured Dean to lie about their ongoing baby adoption for publicity.
Within the explosive social media submit, Dean informed of how his 'poisonous relationship' with Harry left him suicidal and he referred to as the police on the fact star's household for his or her 'disgusting behaviour' once they 'broke into his house and stole his canine' following their cut up.
Harry and Dean, who had been engaged for 2 years, introduced they'd cut up up again in early October and it seems tensions rose after Dean obtained into a brand new relationship.
Dean wrote: 'I hate to must share such private info however that is wanted. The night time in query that Harry has referred to in his social media submit. Sure, I certainly took my bag again off him because it was my bag, however at no level did I do know that his telephone was inside it as we had been out all day beforehand and he had been posting tales throughout that day.
'I even referred to as his mum and his dad that night time to allow them to know that we had an argument and that I took my bag off him, I discovered his telephone inside my bag whereas on the telephone together with his mum so his household knew this. I simply stated to them he'll most likely come to considered one of their homes.
'His mum stated on the telephone to me that 'He's a little bit of a nightmare' after a drink. This was round 7 pm and after on the lookout for him for 3 hours I went to my good friend's home as I used to be upset about how the night ended.'
He continued: 'Harry's mum came to visit the subsequent day to gather Harry's telephone and a few of his belongings whereas he stayed at her home. At no level did Harry or his mum point out any bodily violence or bruises from the night time.
'When Harry obtained his telephone again he informed me the subsequent day he went again to our home and I wasn't house so went to his cousin Amy's [Child's] home who later dropped him off at his mum's home. If he was terrified of me would he have come house?
'Harry broke into my home together with his mum, dad and brother late at night time per week after our break up and stole one of many canines off me which legally are each registered to me and in my identify.
'He additionally tried to intimidate me the place my sister needed to name the police on them for his or her disgusting behaviour. When the police arrived I made a decision to not take something additional as I needed to calm the scenario as his mum was screaming all kinds outdoors of my home.'
Dean then addressed Harry's black eye explaining: 'His dad and I come to phrases that his dad will come and gather all his stuff and never simply flip up in our home like thieves.
'The tracksuit he's carrying in a type of photos is clothes I packed up for him greater than 3 weeks after that night time which his dad collected from my home whereas my good friend was there to witness this. So, he wouldn't nonetheless have a black eye.
'Harry and I've stayed involved for our enterprise the entire time and by no means one had he ever talked about any of this, we had been even talking the day earlier than he did his submit relating to Vets particulars for considered one of our canines 'Baby'.
'In response to Harry he has been hidden away for two months which is a lie as he's going to a neighborhood pub each night time, nights out with associates, doing make-up appointments in Brentwood at a salon and in a salon in Kent greater than as soon as per week.
'He has additionally been filming TOWIE. He additionally messaged me the opposite day to let me know he's working with a make-up coaching college and needed to make use of Celeb Brushes for it. Is that this sounding shady but? Preserve studying.'
Addressing his personal psychological well being, Dean revealed: 'Harry additionally knew our complete relationship that I had points with psychological well being and used this to make me really feel like sh*t on a number of events. I attempted to take my very own life twice within the final 6 months of our poisonous relationship.
'As I needed to finish our relationship on many events however was made to really feel like I couldn't survive with out him and I additionally know that he has a really spiteful sting in his story with lies and more often than not thought it will be simpler to stick with him due to the enterprise and our canines.
'He acknowledged he was abused on a number of event throughout our relationship which comes as full information to me. Harry a number of instances bodily assaulted me, which I by no means took any additional.
'Harry's submit acknowledged he has given me every part and left him nothing which isn't true as I gave him every part he needed, I additionally even stated to him that I might assist him get a flat so he may reside independently.'
Explaining how the social media spat started, Dean wrote: 'All this began after I stated I used to be going to go public about it as he withdrew cash from our enterprise account illegally and it was by no means mentioned or signed off by all administrators.
'I posted what I feel was a pleasant submit pertaining to the tip of our relationship by which he informed me he was doing the identical and Whatsapped me the screenshots of what he was going to say, not as soon as did he ever point out something he claims in his current submit.
'The breakdown of our relationship was at all times to do with how a lot alcohol Harry drank and the truth that he was a compulsive liar.'
Dean then stated of his new romance: 'Harry discovered final weekend that I've moved on. For some individuals, this may increasingly appear quickly, however we broke up method earlier than any tales went out or any posts.
'Steven and I've been associates for five years and is the one person who I've at all times been in love with however sadly, the timing was by no means proper, we reconnected after me being single and I can truthfully say I've by no means been happier in my life,
'I've turned down some large TV courting reveals as I do know I wish to spend the remainder of my life with Steven and at last know what it feels wish to be in a relationship with somebody that respects you.
'Harry's Instagram submit is nothing however a cry for assist as these allegations aren't true and fabricated. I've additionally requested a number of professionals for his or her opinion on the image he has posted and so they have confirmed it's the make-up and combined with photoshop and facetune and so forth.'
Hitting again at his ex's allegations, Dean wrote: 'Harry's lies don't come as a shock to most individuals judging by the messages I've obtained thus far. He even made me faux we began our adoption course of. We obtained on Free Ladies from this, it's all not true and it was all for the press as he needed to get again on TOWIE.
'I do know many will say why did I associate with all of it this time? And to be sincere I'm undecided. I've spent years defending his lies particularly from all of the dishonest Towie tales and I've been extraordinarily trolled for it over the time.
'I'm disgusted {that a} platform reminiscent of TOWIE would enable somebody like this to continuously broadcast such lies about individuals and I'm not simply speaking about me, I'm speaking about everybody he has achieved over time.
'I thank everybody who has reached out to me thus far and for many who haven't particularly "Friends" please take this time to learn over what I've stated and know that this isn't a one-sided story.'
MailOnline has contacted Harry's representatives for remark.
Harry and Dean introduced they'd cut up up again in early October.
The TOWIE star took to Instagram earlier this week to share photos of his alleged black eye, writing: 'Right here is the story.... On the 25/9/21 I used to be attacked by my ex as a result of he was violent whereas drunk. I attempted to resolve the scenario but it surely ended up turning on me....
'He then pulled my facet bag off of me and hit me full within the face which left me with a black eye and marked my neck, this all occurred in Piccadilly Circus in public and he made me so scared I had no alternative however to run away from him to get to security...
'I ran with out a telephone, cash or something (as a result of he had taken my bag after which determined to hold on ingesting at he is good friend while I used to be left stranded) I needed to discover my very own method house which took me 8 hours. Nobody would take me house as a result of I did not have any cash on me, I used to be left within the metropolis with none means to get house and I used to be a scared... [sic]
'Just a few days later my ex and his sister referred to as the police on me as a result of I went into my own residence with my household to gather my stuff together with considered one of my canine's... he is sister referred to as the police on me.
'However the police had been extra involved with my accidents and requested me did I wish to press expenses relating to the assault.. I stated no as a result of I used to be scared and to emotionally distraught.
'For the final 2 months I have been hidden away unhappy and scared however at the moment I've lastly discovered the braveness to be sincere and discover the energy to see the particular person for who he really is.... No extra... at the moment I begin placing myself first...
'Nobody ought to be alone in these conditions and simply keep in mind we're all stronger than what we expect.'
'I've needed to share my honesty I have been handled dangerous by somebody and any more I am again to me and I am again to the Harry everyone knows and love... thanks and love you all.'
MailOnline has contacted representatives for Harry Derbridge and Dean Rowland for remark.
In October Dean introduced that he and Harry had cut up up, writing: 'After 4 lengthy wonderful years, Harry and I've determined to half methods.'
'It is with a extremely heavy coronary heart and absolute nervousness that I am sharing this with you all.
'It feels odd that we've to share this sort of factor with everybody, but it surely's a consequence of the lives we have chosen to guide, which we additionally occur to be deeply grateful for. We're dwelling in an unbelievable second in time, but it surely's additionally a time the place reality can simply be distorted into "alternative facts" 🙂
'So, I wish to share the reality, so you recognize that it is most actually fiction for those who did not learn it right here.
'Everybody on right here, associates and social associates, have supported our relationship and been behind us it doesn't matter what we've been going by, be it our adoption course of, giving us recommendation on our little 2 French bulldogs and simply being an enormous supporter of our enterprise @celebritybrushes.
'After 4 lengthy wonderful years, Harry and I've determined to half methods; that is completely on good phrases. Nothing has modified about how a lot we love each other, however love is a fantastic journey taking us completely different paths for now.
'There aren't any secret nor salacious occasions on the root of decision- simply two greatest associates realising it is time to take some house and assist one another reside essentially the most joyous, fulfilled lives attainable.
'I might belief him with something and he nonetheless stays that essential particular person in my life.
'No relationship is simple, and everyone knows this, however with my hand on my coronary heart, I can say the final 4 years have been essentially the most wonderful reminiscences I may have ever requested for in a human being. We now have laughed, cried and drunk plenty of wine, and in any case of this, I nonetheless have the utmost respect for Harry and his selections going ahead.
The previous Pineapple Dance Studios actuality TV star went on to say on the time that they plan to stay shut associates.
'Not solely was Harry a lifelong companion for me, however he additionally was my greatest good friend I did every part with, and though I've misplaced the connection on that degree he is nonetheless my greatest good friend and somebody I belief with my life.
'We're nonetheless a household and can at all times be devoted to our enterprise Celeb Brushes.
'We can't be commenting past this, and we thanks all prematurely for respecting our household's privateness and our psychological well-being.
'Sending numerous like to everybody and thanks all for taking the day out to learn small story from a really massive a part of my life. Dean xxx'
Harry hadn't commented on the break-up, nevertheless, many associates and followers rushed to ship their like to the previous couple.
