I know that today might be hard for some of you because your child's deadbeat absent father is not around today. Please do us all a favor and be quiet if you have nothing positive to say. PLEASE don't be the way I was a few years ago wishing yourself a Happy Father's Day. You do NOT have a penis so you are not a father, you are a MOTHER! There are plenty of great father's that deserve to enjoy this day, we must let them do that! I understand how you are feeling today, but let's take the time to salute the dads who are in their children's life instead of wasting energy on those who are not.